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I don't date people I am not attracted to from the first sentence/contact... or the start. They have to measure up or I won't even bother perusing anything. Not even dinner and a movie...nope!! Now that may mean some other dudes don't find them attractive, but I have to. I have a very very specific type I am attracted to. It never varies more than a few degrees either way. The means I wanna "bone" straight from the start. Like any other guy I get frustrated when they are always too tired, don't want to, or not in the mood. I've discovered it can be fixed or repaired easily with some talking and communication. Tell her what's on your mind and WHY you are always horny and GET NOTHING!!
Hopefully she will get it and go to work correcting it. Nothing worse in life than a man who doesn't feel loved or wanted anymore. It will break you down and beat you up inside. Work on it!
So the guy has great sex with one girl and now found another girl he is sleeping with too (otherwise how can he know about weak sexual chemistry?)
This is so funny. The guys is not stuck, he obviously enjoys having sex with both chicks and having a choice even if he says otherwise.
At some point though he has to be honest with everybody and chose.
We have told him the same thing. He says that he has put a distance between him and the first woman because he spends a lot of time with the second one now althought the sex is not good, it is to a point that the first woman is going to probably figure out and break up soon. He is not a poly guy and wants to find someone although some of our friends think that he is still playing the field and not really serious, judging on the way he handles things.
Been there, done that. Woman A was very attractive, great body, lots of fun in bed, but we had nothing in common. Woman B I loved spending time with, hanging out with, doing things with, having long conversations with, but I just wasn't sexually attracted to her. I started dating both around the same time. Eventually Woman A broke it off with me, probably realizing we didn't have much in common. I stayed with woman B a long time, because we had become like best friends, and I really really hoped the sexual attraction would come eventually. It never did. I had to end that one, and it sucked.
Moral of the story: You really have to have both. I do, anyway.
Been there, done that. Woman A was very attractive, great body, lots of fun in bed, but we had nothing in common. Woman B I loved spending time with, hanging out with, doing things with, having long conversations with, but I just wasn't sexually attracted to her. I started dating both around the same time. Eventually Woman A broke it off with me, probably realizing we didn't have much in common. I stayed with woman B a long time, because we had become like best friends, and I really really hoped the sexual attraction would come eventually. It never did. I had to end that one, and it sucked.
Moral of the story: You really have to have both. I do, anyway.
No matter what anybody else says: there can't be a great relationship without great sex.
No matter what anybody else says: there can't be a great relationship without great sex.
Yeah, and I knew this. I was just hoping against hope that the sexual attraction would come eventually as the emotional intimacy increased, because she actually wasn't bad-looking at all. She just didn't do it for me for some reason.
Yeah, and I knew this. I was just hoping against hope that the sexual attraction would come eventually as the emotional intimacy increased, because she actually wasn't bad-looking at all. She just didn't do it for me for some reason.
All I know is that sexual attraction is not based on looks alone. There is more to it but it can't be substituted with anything else. Honeymoon in cancun may not even be half exciting as an dirty motel room in new Jersey with somebody else.
10 years isn't an insurmountable age difference, by any means, as long as the other traits exist that would make for a great, lasting relationship.
I agree...That's not bad at all. I can't think of anyone in any of my friend groups who would have a problem with a guy in his late 30's bringing along a date in her late 20's. That's a fairly common occurrence, actually. If she doesn't mesh well with his friends, I bet it's due to factors other than age.
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