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I agree with the others that she probably has moved on. You have to too. If you need to unfriend her to do that, then do so. Only worry about your own well-being and feelings, not hers.
Sometimes you have to accept that a person you like a lot is just not right for you.
Why are you still playing games with her if you don't want to be with her? And why are you spending so much time thinking about this? You don't want to make her seem important enough to unfriend - yet you are spending an awful lot of thought on why she is posting the pictures she is posting, how often she looks at your page, etc. If she doesn't mean anything to you - simply unfriend her and move on.
Actually, I know a lot of happy people on Facebook. A lot of them simply like sharing. I would say that people with more time on their hands post more often - but I don't think that happiness is a factor.
Well we broke up a year ago and this has been going on the entire time. I didn't care or pay much attention to it until TODAY. For some reason today when I logged onto Facebook and saw her post like 20 pictures again something just went off in my head.. like what the heck is she doing??? lol.
I think she is pretending to be more happy, but is really miserable. Most happy people I know are not on Facebook much. Most frequent posters are bored (like you said) or trying to prove something by showing off.
I only check it once a day to see whats new with people and see if I have any invites. She is always on the news feed though.
yeah, so true. Alot of people who have this insanely perfect happy life that we see thru facebook posts and tags are sometimes just trying to portray this picture of themselves. Truthfully, sites like Facebook are self serving and should be called "Bragbook" for some people.
i knew a girl who was portraying to be this great mom to be and loving her pregnancy. she would always post "eating clean" or taking care of your body posts.. and truth is, i would always see her on her front porch smoking cigarettes. even caught her at the convenience store buying alcohol. yeah she couldve been buying it for someone else but sometimes, she smelt like booze.
u said u dumped her.. so u basically stopped the relationship from moving further. she could be trying to show u that "oh im living my life , look at me " she could be trying to get your attention. and by this thread, is sorta, kinda working because your wondering about it.
ehh, just ignore the post, dont be stubborn if u want to unfriend her, just do it.
Unfriending her might make her think a two things:
1. u couldnt stand to see her happy so u had to delete her from your newsfeed because you cant take the emotional turmoil her happiness is causing you.
OR
2. u deleted her because u wanted her to call u to ask u why u deleted her.
Honestly, dont put too much stock in what she thinks or does because shes an ex for a reason. Focus your energy on things worth thinking about.
I agree with the others that she probably has moved on. You have to too. If you need to unfriend her to do that, then do so. Only worry about your own well-being and feelings, not hers.
Sometimes you have to accept that a person you like a lot is just not right for you.
You're right. This is true. Its silly to keep her on my Facebook just to play a silly chicken game.
I just wish she would unfriend me first. I hate feeling like the weaker party. Especially since I dumped HER.
If a girl dumps me I unfriend her immediately. But when I dump her I expect her to unfriend me. But she won't.
You're right. This is true. Its silly to keep her on my Facebook just to play a silly chicken game.
I just wish she would unfriend me first. I hate feeling like the weaker party. Especially since I dumped HER.
If a girl dumps me I unfriend her immediately. But when I dump her I expect her to unfriend me. But she won't.
I don't even understand why this is an issue. How does the person doing the unfriending become the weaker party? Geez. Just do what you want and stop over analyzing everything.
You're right. This is true. Its silly to keep her on my Facebook just to play a silly chicken game.
I just wish she would unfriend me first. I hate feeling like the weaker party. Especially since I dumped HER.
If a girl dumps me I unfriend her immediately. But when I dump her I expect her to unfriend me. But she won't.
You could also unfriend her because she posts too dang much and clutters up your page, thus distracting you from other more important things. Maybe you don't want to see her ugly mug every 5 mins.
Sometimes people become obsessed with you when you reject them.
It sounds like you're the one that is guilty of obsessing here.
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