It's not all about women finding you as hunky beefcake arm candy or charming, I am quite average looking, tall, but average looking, and my obvious wit and charm are probably more abrasive than not... However,
I never asked women out, they always came to me. Granted they got crazy as I aged, but when I was 20 something, I just placed myself in positions where I was surround by women, and
they came to me.
Wow thanks for the post, very insightful...I gotta find these positions to be surrounded by women, thinking of things as i type