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From a guys perspective, I think it is so devistating because there is nothing you can do about it. Sounds like that would make it easier to deal with, but it doesn't. If it were another guy, you at least feel like you can compete and win her over, even if you know she is gone for good: you gave it your best shot and it was not "meant to be". But if she turned out to be a lesbian, and left you for a woman, what can you do? Nothing. Not matter what you do, or can do, will "win" her back. She would be gone forever, as if she had died, yet, she would be out there alive and happy and with someone who's language you will never be able to speak. Talk about a downer!
Not to diminish anyone's pain, but that's just ego talking. Just so you know...
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From a guys perspective, I think it is so devistating because there is nothing you can do about it. Sounds like that would make it easier to deal with, but it doesn't. If it were another guy, you at least feel like you can compete and win her over, even if you know she is gone for good: you gave it your best shot and it was not "meant to be". But if she turned out to be a lesbian, and left you for a woman, what can you do? Nothing. Not matter what you do, or can do, will "win" her back. She would be gone forever, as if she had died, yet, she would be out there alive and happy and with someone who's language you will never be able to speak. Talk about a downer!
Interesting. I was dumped for a woman by a girl I knew was bi. I took it the opposite. That I couldn't compete against a woman so it made it easier. If it was a man she left me for, that really would have hurt more... he was better than me.
things were more casual than BF/GF but yes, a gal whom i hooked up with and knew very well for many years is now married to another woman
it makes me feel, "good for her, i'm glad she's happy." we still see each other on occasion and it's fine, my pee-wee doesn't get bent out of shape or anything like that
my exes who went on to marry loser guys completely unlike me weird me out more. although even then not that much, it's all in the past
I dated this cute girl who was very in denial about her sexuality. She was an aspiring stand up comic so I think she was afraid it would ruin her career. I dated her for a bit but then she came out and decided no more hot beef injections for her. I will only refer to her as E. Degeneres to protect her anonymity.
I dated this cute girl who was very in denial about her sexuality. She was an aspiring stand up comic so I think she was afraid it would ruin her career. I dated her for a bit but then she came out and decided no more hot beef injections for her. I will only refer to her as E. Degeneres to protect her anonymity.
I'm curious with all the good stuff Ellen does, I wonder when she'll stop being the butt of jokes........
I have a friend who's ex decided to turn gay after they broke up. It was a pretty big shock!
Asinine.
People don't "turn" gay.
Either you are or you aren't. That person probably always was, they just came out when the break up happened.
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