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Old 11-17-2013, 04:17 PM
 
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If your girlfriend or wife always thought about other guys when she had sex with you?

Assume that your sex life with her is very active and she has never and will never cheat on you.

(To help keep the discussion focused, this is not a question to examine whether she has the right to think about whatever she wants, but rather, the question is about how you feel about her having those thoughts?)
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Old 11-17-2013, 04:22 PM
 
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Oh my god.. hell yes I would mind...

Seriously.. if you want your relationship to work, take that to the grave.. never mention it!
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Old 11-17-2013, 04:22 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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I wouldn't care, although I don't think I'd want to hear the gory details, to be honest.
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Old 11-17-2013, 04:26 PM
 
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I don't know. Something tells me that if that's what she did while having sex with me, she wouldn't be happy with me, so that could be a sign of her not wanting to be in the relationship.
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Old 11-17-2013, 04:30 PM
 
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I don't understand this kind of question.

During sex, I'm so into whatever is going on presently that I don't have the brain cells to think about anything or anyone else. Maybe it's focus, I don't know, but I just don't see how it's even possible unless you're really unhappy with your partner and completely disconnected.

(If I'm alone, it's a completely different story.)
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Old 11-17-2013, 04:32 PM
 
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It would be OK because i would be thinking about her best friend or sister or mom .
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Old 11-17-2013, 04:36 PM
 
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I don't understand this kind of question.

During sex, I'm so into whatever is going on presently that I don't have the brain cells to think about anything or anyone else. Maybe it's focus, I don't know, but I just don't see how it's even possible unless you're really unhappy with your partner and completely disconnected.

(If I'm alone, it's a completely different story.)
I never said anything in the OP about how I feel or what I do (that was purposeful). I was simply asking the men what they thought about this.
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Old 11-17-2013, 04:40 PM
 
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I'm not a guy, but this would be a total dealbreaker for me.
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Old 11-17-2013, 04:43 PM
 
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Ladies ladies, please let the guys answer.
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Old 11-17-2013, 04:45 PM
 
Location: Pa
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It's ok, I'm thinking of Thor.
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