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Old 11-19-2013, 02:04 PM
 
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I've noticed a pattern in couples in the past. Take my parents generation. They married in June 1982 and my elder brother was born in June 1983. The same thing happened with my uncles and aunts and many of my parents' friends.

It seemmed like people married and she got pregnant right away. Let's not even talk about grandparents, those were even faster. My uncle was born in the same year.

P.S. My grandparents went on honeymoon to Rome and one day I asked my grandfather if he enjoyed the city. He just said "I don't know, we didn't even leave the hotel room". That have something to do with it.
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Old 11-19-2013, 02:08 PM
 
Location: The Hall of Justice
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No contraceptives.
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Old 11-19-2013, 02:08 PM
 
Location: southwestern PA
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lack of reliable birth control
desire to start a family right away
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Old 11-19-2013, 02:09 PM
 
Location: Up in the air
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I have a feeling a lot of it is the other way around... pregnancy and then shot gun marriage.

My parents got married in April and I was born that December
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Old 11-19-2013, 02:13 PM
 
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No contraceptives.
By the early 80s there were contraceptives.
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Old 11-19-2013, 02:14 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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My parents were married for 5 years before they had me. My husband's parents were married for 4 or 5 years before they started having children. After they did have reliable birth control - it was up to the couple.
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Old 11-19-2013, 02:15 PM
 
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I have a feeling a lot of it is the other way around... pregnancy and then shot gun marriage.
Yes, my grandmother used to remind us that they married in February and my uncle was born in November, just in time so he wasn't conceived "in sin".
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Old 11-19-2013, 02:16 PM
 
Location: Texas
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My parents waited 5 years...this was in the 70s.

I think people should wait.
Enjoy time as a couple and bond.
Make sure this is someone you want to create life with.
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Old 11-19-2013, 02:18 PM
 
Location: Middle America
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By the early 80s there were contraceptives.
There were contraceptives before that.
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Old 11-19-2013, 02:19 PM
 
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By the early 80s there were contraceptives.
I was answering the "couples in the past" part, sorry. But it's still the same answer. People have sex without contraceptives and babies happen.
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