How do you tell your boyfriend you would like him to be the one to take your virginity? (dating, man)
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So I have been thinking about losing my virginity to my boyfriend. He was my best friend for more than 5 years before we started dating and we have been dating a year now. We are both 20 years old. I am not sure yet about 100% if and when I want to have sex and if I am fully ready but I want to just let my boyfriend know that I hope he is the one I lose my virginity too.
Does that sound weird? Can I just tell him that? I am not sure how this all works at all. If it is normal to say it, how do I tell him that?
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So I have been thinking about losing my virginity to my boyfriend. He was my best friend for more than 5 years before we started dating and we have been dating a year now. We are both 20 years old. I am not sure yet about 100% if and when I want to have sex and if I am fully ready but I want to just let my boyfriend know that I hope he is the one I lose my virginity too.
Does that sound weird? Can I just tell him that? I am not sure how this all works at all. If it is normal to say it, how do I tell him that?
Say "hey wanna ?" as casually as possible when you feel ready. Don't make it more complicated than it needs to be.
He's your best friend and you've known him for over six years, but there's been no mention of sex in that time and he doesn't know that you're a virgin?
So I have been thinking about losing my virginity to my boyfriend. He was my best friend for more than 5 years before we started dating and we have been dating a year now. We are both 20 years old. I am not sure yet about 100% if and when I want to have sex and if I am fully ready but I want to just let my boyfriend know that I hope he is the one I lose my virginity too.
Does that sound weird? Can I just tell him that? I am not sure how this all works at all. If it is normal to say it, how do I tell him that?
I'm sure he'd rather you not tell him until you're ready to show him.
When you're ready, just create the circumstances so it can happen. Also, make sure you have protection available. If it's a surprise, he may not be prepared and that can spoil the mood in more than one way.
So I have been thinking about losing my virginity to my boyfriend. He was my best friend for more than 5 years before we started dating and we have been dating a year now. We are both 20 years old. I am not sure yet about 100% if and when I want to have sex and if I am fully ready but I want to just let my boyfriend know that I hope he is the one I lose my virginity too.
Does that sound weird? Can I just tell him that? I am not sure how this all works at all. If it is normal to say it, how do I tell him that?
Nope. Don't ever mention it to him until you feel that you are ready for it.
It'll cause problems.
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?" as casually as possible when you feel ready. Don't make it more complicated than it needs to be.
