Post Break Up Regrets ??

[OneManBanned]

DO NOT CONTACT!

You will not feel better for it, trust me! I've been there. She's freaking out because you won't contact her back, so by going silent you are doing the very best thing you can if "revenge" is what you want.

Save your self-respect, don't let her draw you into more drama!

[VanillaEps]

Originally Posted by oh-eve

I am usually a very drama free person.

But in your situation I would take the right to do what is best for me - call and yell at her for a while. Or let her fly in and yell at her in person.

And then never see her again.

I am probably the only one here who thinks like that. But I know I would feel much better after letting it all out.

Of course you can also just drive your car into the middle of nowhere and scream very loud. It's not quite the same, but it helps a bit, too.

I second the scream very loud. I've had several screaming sessions in my own house pretending to talk to the person I am upset with and it really does feel good.

[OneManBanned]

The above is bad, bad, bad advice. This guy obviously has a weakness for this woman, and going and screaming at her is only going to make it worse, and it's going to allow her to draw him back into the drama.

NO CONTACT, PERIOD, EVER!!!!

[oh-eve]

Originally Posted by VanillaEps

I second the scream very loud. I've had several screaming sessions in my own house pretending to talk to the person I am upset with and it really does feel good.

I was suggesting the screaming in the car - to not scare the neighbors and pets if you have any.

[California831]

regret nothing. BReaking up with exes is all part of your life's grand scheme.