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Old 11-27-2013, 05:45 PM
 
Location: Atlanta (Finally on 4-1-17)
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There is this gal that I KNOW I can "get with". She has even made mention of it. BUT, she's so darn mean, I can't take that. I don't like MEAN people.

Have you ever met someone that you thought was cool but the attitude turned you off?
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Old 11-27-2013, 06:08 PM
 
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This is why I don't judge people based on their looks or by first impressions. It's like hiring someone who is great at interviewing but awful at doing the work... it ends up wasting more of your time than necessary.
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Old 11-27-2013, 06:13 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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Have you ever met someone that you thought was cool but the attitude turned you off?
Do you see the contradiction in terms here? "Cool" but "mean"? Anyone who's mean can't possibly be cool.
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Old 11-27-2013, 06:37 PM
 
Location: The Greater Houston Metro Area
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Yeah, not good. She will be cute for a little while but mean for a loooooooong time. Made that mistake once in dating, but he wasn't mean, he was extremely handsome and extremely dumb. That was not a good mix, either. The date lasted almost 2 hours before I decided to just give some excuse and end it.


Every great once in awhile, I will meet someone in life (man or woman) that is ugly, mean and dumb. Can you imagine their existence? Some run for and win political office.
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Old 11-27-2013, 06:45 PM
 
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Someone who is full of drama is not worth it. Move on and find someone nicer.
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Old 11-27-2013, 07:40 PM
 
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Do you see the contradiction in terms here? "Cool" but "mean"? Anyone who's mean can't possibly be cool.
She's cool to him cause he knows he could have her...
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Old 11-27-2013, 08:33 PM
 
Location: CO/UT/AZ/NM Catch me if you can!
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There is this gal that I KNOW I can "get with". She has even made mention of it. BUT, she's so darn mean, I can't take that. I don't like MEAN people.

Have you ever met someone that you thought was cool but the attitude turned you off?
Yeah, sociopaths. They can be quite good looking, know all the right things to say, so that they can manipulate others into doing what they want, and they're selfish and mean as hell. I've never thought someone who was mean was cool - maybe morbidly fascinating like a cobra swaying up in a basket and flicking its fangs in and out. That's about it.

If you want to have a good time with a female version of Ted Bundy (a VERY handsome sociopath), it's your life. I'm sure this gal is just dying to make it miserable for you. Personally, I'd buy a cute puppy.
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Old 11-27-2013, 09:40 PM
 
Location: The Greater Houston Metro Area
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Yeah, sociopaths. They can be quite good looking, know all the right things to say, so that they can manipulate others into doing what they want, and they're selfish and mean as hell. I've never thought someone who was mean was cool - maybe morbidly fascinating like a cobra swaying up in a basket and flicking its fangs in and out. That's about it.

If you want to have a good time with a female version of Ted Bundy (a VERY handsome sociopath), it's your life. I'm sure this gal is just dying to make it miserable for you. Personally, I'd buy a cute puppy.
At least the puppy would have real feelings for you back.
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Old 11-27-2013, 11:39 PM
 
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hit it and quit it bro, either that or teach her not to be mean anymore
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Old 11-28-2013, 01:36 AM
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There is this gal that I KNOW I can "get with". She has even made mention of it. BUT, she's so darn mean, I can't take that. I don't like MEAN people.

Have you ever met someone that you thought was cool but the attitude turned you off?
I would not have anything to do with someone that was mean.
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