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And then he cheats, it's not true he's just not attracted to her or she doesn't want to do CERTAIN things sexually? Like the dude has a certain fetish whether a race of a woman(which is GF/Wife isn't) or a a specific sexual act(like a threesome or anal) that his GF/wife isn't down for even though she still wants to have sex with him. So he makes up a lie that she's holding out on him and uses that as an excuse to see other women on the side. I honestly think this happens a lot. I mean I've heard so many stories of women who say they practically have to BEG their man to have sex with them and in general he seems like he's not attracted to her anymore
I think that could be the case sometimes, but alot of times people just have mismatching libidos, and while they can put up with it for a while, eventually depending on the persons personality, they will, either cheat, leave or try to work it out.
For instance, one of my ex's, was in the mood for sex maybe 1 time per week. Which, honestly, wasn't enough for me. We ended up breaking up, but not because of that. I really loved her at the time so it really didn't matter to me, and when we did do the deed it was great.
Then I was with a girl that wanted sex like 8 times a day, and that was way too much. At night she would literally wake me up at least 3 times, and if I told her I was tired she would start crying saying that I didn't care about her, so I'd eventually break down and begrudgingly do it again. And in my mind I'm thinking,"My God, I just want to get some rest!" Keep in mind this is after 2-4 sessions earlier that day.
With my fiance, everything is perfect, we both desire sex at about the same rate and its wonderful.
And then he cheats, it's not true he's just not attracted to her or she doesn't want to do CERTAIN things sexually? Like the dude has a certain fetish whether a race of a woman(which is GF/Wife isn't) or a a specific sexual act(like a threesome or anal) that his GF/wife isn't down for even though she still wants to have sex with him. So he makes up a lie that she's holding out on him and uses that as an excuse to see other women on the side. I honestly think this happens a lot. I mean I've heard so many stories of women who say they practically have to BEG their man to have sex with them and in general he seems like he's not attracted to her anymore
By my estimations about 90% of the time it's untrue.
Not wanting to leave the gf/wife (for whatever reason they give) and the lack of extreme resentment towards her that should be bordering on hatred, is the give-away. They just want a piece on the side, maybe for something new.
Many cheating men are sexually attracted to their wives. They are not lying, they usually believe they have good reasons to cheat and that includes "a man is incapable of rejecting a sexual advance"
I heard that a lot in a previous job where some girls were literally rubbing their private parts against married men. (Saw it with my own eyes) Most men justified the other guys' cheating behaviors too which made me more bitter since it seemed some of those men didn't cheat because they couldn't, they were not as attractive or young as the other guys.
And then he cheats, it's not true he's just not attracted to her or she doesn't want to do CERTAIN things sexually? Like the dude has a certain fetish whether a race of a woman(which is GF/Wife isn't) or a a specific sexual act(like a threesome or anal) that his GF/wife isn't down for even though she still wants to have sex with him. So he makes up a lie that she's holding out on him and uses that as an excuse to see other women on the side. I honestly think this happens a lot. I mean I've heard so many stories of women who say they practically have to BEG their man to have sex with them and in general he seems like he's not attracted to her anymore
I think that happens more than half the time.
The rest of the time, I think the GF or wife actually won't have sex with him because he's lousy in bed, his hygiene sucks, there are problems in the relationship, or she knows he's a cheating ass and doesn't want to catch anything from him while she gathers her resources to leave him.
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