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Hello lads & Gents.
My name is Catharina & I've just turned 30 this April 2013.
And this is my story
I have 2 wonderful children (twins) Amber & Kylie; they just turned 1 last week.
I met my husband Dean when I was 22, and he proposed to me 3 years later and got married.
Our life was not that perfect but as every normal relationship we had our ups and down. But apart from that we made a good team.
His parents love me, and my parents adore him for being who he is with his kindness and all.
To me he was the apple of my eye, and I couldn't picture my life without him. We had our fairy tale wedding that we always talked about. We both had a successful carrier. 5 months after our wedding we finally move out in the apartment we were renting, and we bought a beautiful home outside the city. The smell of nature and the view was amazing. After our first wedding anniversary I got pregnant, and we were so happy to have received this baby. He would never miss a doctor appointment for the baby ultra sound. I could still remember I was 4 months pregnant and the doctor told us we would be having twins. It was a big joy, but also a big challenge with 2 babies.
After the twins were born, things started to change. I know that a baby can change a couple lives but I made sure I spend as much time with him as possible. I was ready to give up my carrier for my family and become a full time mum & wife.
While he was at work I cook and clean, so that when he comes home after work everything is done, so that we could talk a little bit. Until he starts having private text messages, run out side to answer his phone, until I asked him what’s wrong. He would just go like “it’s a work thing”.
Few months went by; I took the twins to their appointment. And drop by my parents’ house, where I collect some take out, few seconds my phone ring and its him “babe I’m going to be late tonight love you!” then he hang up. Since I’ve already collected the takeout and I was on my way home with the twins, I decide to give him surprise visit my dropping him some food to eat as he was coming home late.
I quickly rushed to the elevator with the twins in the stroller.
As I reached on the 28th floor, I started to smile really big, as if I was a 5 year old girl going to see Santa!
Finally I reached to his office door and open as I said “surprise” GOD it wasn't the surprise I was expecting to see.
I saw him ****ing his secretary on the couch on the left in his office.
It was like hell came down on me. I just froze their speechless, filled with anger and a broken heart.
I still spoke no words. It’s like something was stuck in my throat it was the worse feeling ever.
I run out and quickly get home, as he didn't stop calling me.
I pack some clothes and some baby clothes with their bottles. I didn't had the courage to drive, I felt really hearth broken.
I couldn't look my own parents in the eye and said he cheated on me. Reached my parents’ house, my dad quickly run outside saw me crying he scream out my mother’s name, she run outside quickly, as my father took the twins inside, all I could do is break down and scream as my mother hold me tight in her arm, for a minute a felt home and secure, but after that It was pain all over again.
I just kept wishing to myself, “I wish I never went their” it’s like the image is a scar in my head that I can’t wipe out …
It’s been 3 weeks now, and I haven’t answered any of his text or call. But he comes to see the twins as my parents let him
I still love him…but I don’t know if I could ever forgive him what he has done to me…
What should I do?? As he claim it was just 1 time and he feels sorry for what he did…..
Please help me guys.
I don’t know what to do ……………………
Too bad you didn't whip out your phone and take pictures. A good divorce attorney would have a field day with them.
At any rate, get an attorney, then nail the cheater's nads to the wall in court. Do it for your kids, to ensure they have a roof over their heads and food in their stomachs.
Also, get tested for sexually transmitted diseases.
that's the first thing i did... with all my anger inside, i went to my doctor and i suggest that i want all STD test done.. i was so scared.. my result came in, and am clean..
to be honest, my hearts still want his..
how could i ever move on from this situation ??
It's a terrible thing but at least you learned about it quickly. Some women doubt themselves for years never knowing why their relationship has cooled.
Hire a good lawyer and don't look back. Be sure you get as much child support and alimony as possible since you gave up your CAREER to raise the twins.
no man who's worth anything bangs other women once he's committed. It's really as simple as that, he's a low level guy and you should let him go. He may have learned his lesson now, but think about it this way: if you hadn't caught him, he would still be doing it. He's one of those guys.
I have been all over Greenwich and I have not known a building with 28 floors. Maybe in Stamford.
And even if you went to the city, it's too much of a hassle carrying food.
This is a hoax post.
Or is he working in white plains or stamford?
Dudes F their secretaries in the office in the 80s and in naughty america porn videos. There's plenty of places elsewhere, for real champs, not the office
I have been all over Greenwich and I have not known a building with 28 floors. Maybe in Stamford.
And even if you went to the city, it's too much of a hassle carrying food.
This is a hoax post.
Or is he working in white plains or stamford?
Dudes F their secretaries in the office in the 80s and in naughty america porn videos. There's plenty of places elsewhere, for real champs, not the office
Yup. The stilted English and misspellings are a nice touch, though.
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