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View Poll Results: How do you as a woman view the situation in the OP?
Turnoff 6 17.14%
I'm neutral on it 18 51.43%
Mild turn on 5 14.29%
Turn on 6 17.14%
Voters: 35. You may not vote on this poll

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Old 12-06-2013, 08:19 PM
 
Location: New Zealand and Australia
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When a guy hears from a woman that she has been indulging in self pleasure, many men won't find this a turnoff. Some even a turn on.

But what about for the ladies. If a guy you are dating/seeing, or interested in dating lets slip with this info (not in a too crude way).
How do you feel about it?
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Old 12-06-2013, 08:31 PM
 
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It shows that he has issues with social boundaries, and probably also with thinking he is special -- and that other people don't masturbate.

It's like announcing (or 'letting slip') that he sometimes brushes his teeth. You want a cookie for that?

ETA: It also shows that he has no clue about female sexuality, and women's lives outside of sex.

Basically: Masturbation = great, wanting attention for it = he has issues.

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Old 12-06-2013, 08:35 PM
 
Location: Pa
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If he does it imagining me it's all good. Lol
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Old 12-06-2013, 08:37 PM
 
Location: FL
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It shows that he has issues with social boundaries, and probably also with thinking he is special -- and that other people don't masturbate.

It's like announcing (or 'letting slip') that he sometimes brushes his teeth. You want a cookie for that?

ETA: It also shows that he has no clue about female sexuality, and women's sexual lives outside of sex.

Basically: Masturbation = great, wanting attention for it = he has issues.
If you insist, but I'd much prefer a muffin for it instead.
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Old 12-06-2013, 08:39 PM
 
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When a guy hears from a woman that she has been indulging in self pleasure, many men won't find this a turnoff. Some even a turn on.

But what about for the ladies. If a guy you are dating/seeing, or interested in dating lets slip with this info (not in a too crude way).
How do you feel about it?
I'm not sure what you are trying to say. What, exactly, did he let slip?
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Old 12-06-2013, 08:42 PM
 
Location: Pa
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I'm not sure what you are trying to say. What, exactly, did he let slip?
That his snake slithered.
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Old 12-06-2013, 08:43 PM
 
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I'm not sure what you are trying to say. What, exactly, did he let slip?
Dates with Pamela Handerson.
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Old 12-06-2013, 08:45 PM
 
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I'm not sure what you are trying to say. What, exactly, did he let slip?
That's what I'm trying to figure out how this goes. Sounds something like little kimmy and mikie playing in a sand box and mikie let it slip out that he likes to play with his pee pee. Grown-ups?
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Old 12-06-2013, 08:48 PM
 
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Dates with Pamela Handerson.
Lmao! Or his friend Jill.
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Old 12-06-2013, 08:48 PM
 
Location: New Zealand and Australia
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I'm not sure what you are trying to say. What, exactly, did he let slip?
Let slip. Tells you. Whatever. Same thing, don't be a nit picker. Tough crowd. Oh I forgot this is CD relationships

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