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I have probably known more "guys" than you, and there is no way a 90% super majority are bringing up sex at that rate. Something is wrong.
Nerds who can't get women are obsessed with sex, but they are not, typically by any observation I have made, been able to work up the nerve to sexually proposition a woman so quickly. Don't confuse urban metrosexual java programmers to be nerds. Try someone volunteering at the shelter or a robot derby and tell me you get this. My jaw would drop at any kind of sexual proposition.
Ha! I was referring to a computer engineer. Funny you knew that! Not a metrosexual, but either/or..they're the worst!
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Originally Posted by highlife2
I bet the OP's tune would change if no guys wanted to touch her. Perception is reality.
I'm almost 30 (now 28) and fear that I will never date again due to this instant turn-off I have. What happened to giving it some time before such matters were discussed. I really don't want to bring race into this, but I am a black woman dating primarily black men, and I'm just thinking maybe I need to date outside of my race. I mean, you never know. Maybe it will be the same, maybe it won't. I honestly think a break is in order and I'll resume dating when I am 30.
I honestly just would like some friendly conversation. Is this too much to ask?
Please don't play the race game. Black men are no different than any of the other races.
The reason why these men bring up sex is because they don't see you as wife material.
There is something INSIDE OF YOU that is giving off a sexual vibe. Has nothing to do with your clothing.
Could be a plethora of issues that are causing men looking for sex to gravitate towards you.
Remaining friends with your EX is definitely one of the contributing factors.
Inbox me and I can send you more information on what is really going on.
You definitely need to take a break from dating to get to the bottom of the issue.
I'm always a gentleman in that regard until I get fairly obvious cues from the woman she wants to go there. I think it's downright rude of any man to reference sex on a first date, or until he can tell the woman is signaling it's there.
In my humble opinion, you're not likely dating very nice men. Or men who got one thing in mind and want to get there as quickly as possible. And in all fairness some of that is associated to the age group of men you are dating. I have found tat since I'm around the age of 40 now, you bet I'm still interested in sex, but I truly value the woman more and more for other things. I take a serious interest in her interests. When I was in my twenties? Sex always seemed to be at the forefront of my mind, but even then I didn't act like these guys you're dating.
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