If a girl tells a guy "we should chill some time," is that usually in a romantic way?r (boyfriend, woman)
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I am really bad at reading signals, but there is a girl in one of my classes who I have a feeling is into me as more of a friend. She acts very enthusiastic around me lately, and we only really talk in class, but we have been getting more connected. She texts me sometimes about things outside of class, but the thing that gets me is that when she first got my number, she said, "Yoooooo, it's Emily. What up man?". Even though she said that, I still have a feeling something could be up. Whenever she runs into me in the dining hall, she will say things like "Fancy running into you here!" or "That looks so good, what is that?". I also ran into her yesterday, and she said that if I ever want to get dinner with her to let her know. I texted her tonight because I didn't have any plans, and she couldn't do it tonight, but said, "Definitely another night!" I said, "Ok! Enjoy dinner with your parents!" Then she replied, "Also, we should hang out over the summer haha, since we live so close to each other." Whenever we are paired together for class exercises, she gets really excited and was so excited yesterday when we got paired up that the professor gave her a weird look. When she said we should hang out over the summer, I said, "Yeah definitely!" and that was it. So anyway, based on these signals, does it sound like she is indicating a romantic interest or just a platonic one. No response will upset me, because she's not the type I would approach on my own if there weren't these signals, but she is cute and it's worth seeing what's up. Just a month or so ago, a third party told me she was trying to get back together with her ex-boyfriend, whom she broke up with in a January, but I don't know if she still is or not. The "yooooo, what up man" confused me as well honestly. But still, why would she be acting like this if the interest was just platonic? I know you'll all say, "I don't know, ask her out," but please make an effort to give me opinions on how I should be interpreting her behavior.
I don't what type of woman she is, personality/character-wise. Is she a social butterfly, introvert, etc.??). If this was coming from a hooker I can probably make a good assumption, and even then I would be assuming.
I cant read her mind, so "I don't know". Id ask her and save yourself from all the guessing.
I would think she is into you, but these days you really never know.
She obviously is making an effort to talk to you. So whenever you can suggest specific things to do together, do that. Follow up. Make it happen.
Especially over the summer!
Problem is, I'm probably transferring for the fall semester. Is it even worth pursuing anything? My likely college isn't too far from my current one, but I still feel like it could be a waste at this point. Another concern I have is that she likes to drink a lot, and I don't, so I feel like that wouldn't be too good of a difference.
I don't what type of woman she is, personality/character-wise. Is she a social butterfly, introvert, etc.??). If this was coming from a hooker I can probably make a good assumption, and even then I would be assuming.
I cant read her mind, so "I don't know". Id ask her and save yourself from all the guessing.
She is definitely a social butterfly. I understand you can't read her mind, but I'm telling you all I can. Don't you think you could at least venture an opinion?
I believe this is a forum, and I came on here for answers. Wmsn4life gave me a good answer, but if the answer is going to be, "I don't know," then don't answer. It completely diminishes the point of the question.
I believe this is a forum, and I came on here for answers. Wmsn4life gave me a good answer, but if the answer is going to be, "I don't know," then don't answer. It completely diminishes the point of the question.
But how are we SUPPOSE to know what SHE'S thinking?
Are we suppose to read her mind?
Do you want the truth or some BS answer?
We don't know this girl. Our suggestions can lead you in the wrong the direction and cause confusion. That is why you need to figure this out YOURSELF.
She is definitely a social butterfly. I understand you can't read her mind, but I'm telling you all I can. Don't you think you could at least venture an opinion?
She does want to hang out with you (thats a good sign) but for romantic reasons, I'm not certain.
She could very well be asking a bunch of guys "we should chill sometimes" and it could simply be just "hanging out" with no romantic interest; her being a social-butterfly and all.
i don't get girls at all, even though i am one (it seems) so take my answer with caution. i don't think she is "romantically" into you, just maybe into you, maybe she wants something casual, nothing serious, or maybe she does, but her being all enthusiastic doesn't mean she want to be with you, if she is a social butterfly, she probably is only looking for a new "friend" or something. what you tell us about her don't really give much about herself, how she is and what else... when she talk to you, does she touch you? like your arm, shoulder, does she look you in the eye, dunno? does she try to get physically closer to you too? hm... oh well, i am not helping at all, sorry, but like i said i don't get girls in general, cough cough.
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