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Old 03-29-2017, 07:32 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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But how are we SUPPOSE to know what SHE'S thinking?

Are we suppose to read her mind?

Do you want the truth or some BS answer?



We don't know this girl. Our suggestions can lead you in the wrong the direction and cause confusion. That is why you need to figure this out YOURSELF.

Are you afraid to ask her?
I think, the OP wants to interpret " we should chill sometimes" as "hey you want to F-me, get married and have kids". Lol.

Dude, quit being such a coward and ask her.
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Old 03-29-2017, 07:33 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Do you like her? I know I only "chill" with guys I like.
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Old 03-29-2017, 07:46 PM
 
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Do you like her? I know I only "chill" with guys I like.
She is cute, and I would like to know what she is thinking, but I don't have a huge crush on her or anything. It's just worth knowing.
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Old 03-29-2017, 07:47 PM
 
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Originally Posted by Auraliea View Post
But how are we SUPPOSE to know what SHE'S thinking?

Are we suppose to read her mind?

Do you want the truth or some BS answer?



We don't know this girl. Our suggestions can lead you in the wrong the direction and cause confusion. That is why you need to figure this out YOURSELF.

Are you afraid to ask her?
I know you won't know for sure, but I just asked for INTERPRETATIONS.
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Old 03-29-2017, 07:50 PM
 
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I believe this is a forum, and I came on here for answers. Wmsn4life gave me a good answer, but if the answer is going to be, "I don't know," then don't answer. It completely diminishes the point of the question.
The only answers that are important come from this girl so ask her. She is the only one who knows her true intention however, if you cannot decide how to handle this part of your life you appear to not be ready for any type of relationship. Things are not as difficult as so many make them to be.
Ask her or don't, hang out or don't, ask her out on a date or don't, it is all your decision.
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Old 03-29-2017, 08:04 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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IDK about post #10, OP. My take is that she's into you, and hopes you'll ask her to hang out.

If you're transferring away, it's close enough you could still see each other, IF anything develops from this. Don't count your chickens before they hatch. One step at a time.

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Old 03-29-2017, 08:21 PM
 
Location: Pa
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She is cute, and I would like to know what she is thinking, but I don't have a huge crush on her or anything. It's just worth knowing.
Talk to her more,as time goes you will find out.
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Old 03-29-2017, 08:56 PM
 
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I would assume that was in a friendly platonic way. Nothing romantic.
Go out with her and go from there
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Old 03-29-2017, 08:59 PM
 
Location: Polynesia
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She is being friendly, open, telling you very directly that she wants to hang out with you. Sheesh, what more do you want?

Maybe she wants to get to know you better, before she decides if you are right for each other romantically. One thing at a time.
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Old 03-29-2017, 09:04 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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She is being friendly, open, telling you very directly that she wants to hang out with you. Sheesh, what more do you want?
Seriously, OP; what do you want her to do, flag you in with signal flags? She wants to get to know you better and spend time with you. That's pretty clear. So go for it, check it out, and see where things go.
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