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You only want interpretations? OK.
She just wants to be buddies and hang out.
Or, she might want more.
There you go...two interpretations for the price of one.
Problem is, I'm probably transferring for the fall semester. Is it even worth pursuing anything? My likely college isn't too far from my current one, but I still feel like it could be a waste at this point. Another concern I have is that she likes to drink a lot, and I don't, so I feel like that wouldn't be too good of a difference.
You're in college...at your age 4 months is not a waste. Work that into the conversation (that you're transferring) but let HER decide if it's a waste - and don't make a big serious deal about it since you don't even know for sure if you are transferring.
Frankly, many "relationships" at your age don't last beyond a couple months anyway. Don't DECIDE to waste any experience! I think you're nervous and looking for excuses - just ask her out.
You know...girls feel awkward about dating and relationships too. Guys are supposed to do the asking, so girls feel awkward letting the guy know she's interested in him. That MIGHT be why she was all "Yo! dude!" on you. If she sounded all jovial and 'like a guy' than she could save face if you weren't interested.
But at this point, it's hard to tell where she's coming from. My advice is a little different then everyone else's. I wouldn't ask her what her intentions are...just let it play out. Why put her on the spot? Why rush?
If you're curious and want to see where things go, get together with her. If she's romantically in to you, there will be clues. Pay attention to how she dresses. Pay attention to her eye contact. Pay attention to how much she touches you, seemingly casually. Pay attention to how much she's looking around at other guys. If she's only in to you, she's likely romantically interested IN YOU.
Now...if she IS romantically in to you, BEFORE either of you take it to the next level, you should let her know about your future plans. It's only fair.
You know...girls feel awkward about dating and relationships too. Guys are supposed to do the asking, so girls feel awkward letting the guy know she's interested in him. That MIGHT be why she was all "Yo! dude!" on you. If she sounded all jovial and 'like a guy' than she could save face if you weren't interested.
But at this point, it's hard to tell where she's coming from. My advice is a little different then everyone else's. I wouldn't ask her what her intentions are...just let it play out. Why put her on the spot? Why rush?
If you're curious and want to see where things go, get together with her. If she's romantically in to you, there will be clues. Pay attention to how she dresses. Pay attention to her eye contact. Pay attention to how much she touches you, seemingly casually. Pay attention to how much she's looking around at other guys. If she's only in to you, she's likely romantically interested IN YOU.
Now...if she IS romantically in to you, BEFORE either of you take it to the next level, you should let her know about your future plans. It's only fair.
That sounds like a plan. If we wind up having dinner sometime before the semester ends, I will pay attention to her behavior then, and I will definitely take her up on hanging out over the summer and pay attention to her behavior at that time as well. Then go from there.
It's means I like you enough to want to get to know you better
Nothing more, nothing less.
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