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Old 01-06-2014, 07:46 PM
 
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Tell me what an idiot I was for believing that this one would be different.

Two + years together.

He gave me the "sad face" and told me how hard it would be to get over this, blah, blah. He even let me hold out hope. Only a week ago, he took me out to the movies, and I thought maybe we could start again.

I can't even think about dating again.

Just please. Tell me how dumb I am for trusting him. My heart is broken all over again ...
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Old 01-06-2014, 07:47 PM
 
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This is how people move on. It helps with coping.
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Old 01-06-2014, 07:53 PM
 
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Whatever he does at this point with dating will more than likely be a rebound situation.

Question is - how do you know he was on match.com? If you are stalking his cyber activities and social media then you had distrust issues long before this.
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Old 01-06-2014, 07:56 PM
 
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I just had a hunch he was back on Match.com. I really don't know how to explain it.

There was some weird interaction going on recently with him, and when he took me out, I noticed that he was really happy. Or at least he seemed that way.
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Old 01-06-2014, 07:59 PM
 
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Tell me what an idiot I was for believing that this one would be different.

Two + years together.

He gave me the "sad face" and told me how hard it would be to get over this, blah, blah. He even let me hold out hope. Only a week ago, he took me out to the movies, and I thought maybe we could start again.

I can't even think about dating again.

Just please. Tell me how dumb I am for trusting him. My heart is broken all over again ...
Quit being so dramatic. It's not attractive.

You got burned. **** happens. Move on. Live your life. Stop cyber stalking the guy. Etc.
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Old 01-06-2014, 08:02 PM
 
Location: Gaston, South Carolina
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I just had a hunch he was back on Match.com. I really don't know how to explain it.

There was some weird interaction going on recently with him, and when he took me out, I noticed that he was really happy. Or at least he seemed that way.
He's moving on. Good for him. You should do it, too.
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Old 01-06-2014, 08:06 PM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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They say the best way to get over one, is to get under another.

I know it hurts, but when people break up, they start dating. Sometimes it's to have something to do and keep your mind occupied on something else, sometimes it's because they want to date someone new, or whatever.

You guys broke up, he has done nothing wrong besides not mourning for the amount of time you would like.

Call your girlfriends and talk stink about him over a bottle of wine.
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Old 01-06-2014, 08:13 PM
 
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You guys broke up, he has done nothing wrong besides not mourning for the amount of time you would like.

Call your girlfriends and talk stink about him over a bottle of wine.
You bet I'm gonna ...

It's the lies and deceit that bother me the most. He had no business trying to see me, knowing that he was trying to see other women. That's what stings, that he gave me false hope.
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Old 01-06-2014, 08:15 PM
 
Location: Fort Wayne
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Tell me what an idiot I was for believing that this one would be different.

Two + years together.

He gave me the "sad face" and told me how hard it would be to get over this, blah, blah. He even let me hold out hope. Only a week ago, he took me out to the movies, and I thought maybe we could start again.

I can't even think about dating again.

Just please. Tell me how dumb I am for trusting him. My heart is broken all over again ...
Umm…unless you were on Match.com looking for yourself or you are stalking him, how did you even know that he WAS online dating again?
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Old 01-06-2014, 08:19 PM
 
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You bet I'm gonna ...

It's the lies and deceit that bother me the most. He had no business trying to see me, knowing that he was trying to see other women. That's what stings, that he gave me false hope.
I'm sorry, but I don't see where he lied and deceived you. He didn't GIVE you false hope that is something you gave yourself.
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