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Old 01-11-2014, 03:29 PM
 
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How old were you when first turned someone down? I mean rejecting a clear, possibly sensible romantic or sexual opportunity (not breaking up with someone or turning down a person with an incompatible sexual orientation). I ask because I'm curious and also due to the stereotypes that teenage girls are naïve and young men desperate for anything sexual.
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Old 01-11-2014, 03:33 PM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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How old were you when first turned someone down? I mean rejecting a clear, possibly sensible romantic or sexual opportunity (not breaking up with someone or turning down a person with an incompatible sexual orientation). I ask because I'm curious and also due to the stereotypes that teenage girls are naïve and young men desperate for anything sexual.
I was 15 or 16.
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Old 01-11-2014, 03:51 PM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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Later elementary school.
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Old 01-11-2014, 03:52 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Old 01-11-2014, 04:01 PM
 
Location: If I tell you, will you visit?
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How old were you when first turned someone down? I mean rejecting a clear, possibly sensible romantic or sexual opportunity (not breaking up with someone or turning down a person with an incompatible sexual orientation). I ask because I'm curious and also due to the stereotypes that teenage girls are naïve and young men desperate for anything sexual.

Oooooh! I'm embarrassed to say, it may not have been until my late 20's. I was shallow enough where if a girl/woman was offering, I was happy to take
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Old 01-11-2014, 04:28 PM
 
Location: South Bay Native
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Are we allowed to turn them down? I wish someone would have told me sooner, sheesh....

J/K!

Seriously though, I was 18 when I was propositioned by a guy who told me point blank after spending an evening drinking beers with mutual friends that he wanted to well, you know. And fwiw I was living in a country where I was drinking legally at 18 before anyone questions my choices. So, I told Sasha that it was very sweet of him to say so but I had no attraction to him that way.

I've heard people talk about how they "lower the bar" after a few drinks - that doesn't happen for me in the slightest.
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Old 01-11-2014, 04:53 PM
 
Location: Squirrel Hill PA
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Second grade.....

Some kids have to mature really fast.
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Old 01-11-2014, 04:57 PM
 
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Old 01-11-2014, 05:04 PM
 
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Never, but women do not hit on me. I have had to ask women out.

You don't want to know that number, if I can come close to it lol.
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Old 01-11-2014, 06:04 PM
 
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I mean rejecting a clear, possibly sensible romantic or sexual opportunity (not breaking up with someone or turning down a person with an incompatible sexual orientation).
Wait, everyone who is of the right gender is a 'possibly sensible romantic or sexual opportunity'? That's insane.
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