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Old 01-14-2014, 09:43 AM
 
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Old 01-14-2014, 10:03 AM
 
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She also never comes to see me. In the beginning she wanted me to be exclusive so badly that she said she'd come up and pay for this/that, then I said "No, no. I like traveling, I'll see you." and I did. Now she expects to fly down whenever. I can't do it anymore. It's so stressful. This is a 34 year old woman, I'm 23. I have feelings for her, but it's really hard to maintain a relationship so far away. We get along great in person, but thats like 5% of our relationship. I've gotten emotionally attached and I think she knows it.
 
Old 01-14-2014, 10:12 AM
 
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Er, my thought as a woman her age. She sounds desperate herself. Putting up with name calling and begging to a guy who lives 2 hours by plane and is in his mid-20's? Desperate. Great sex? That is to keep you. She's desperate. Don't worry about coming off that way yourself.
 
Old 01-14-2014, 10:13 AM
 
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Er, my thought as a woman her age. She sounds desperate herself. Putting up with name calling and begging to a guy who lives 2 hours by plane and is in his mid-20's? Desperate. Great sex? That is to keep you. She's desperate. Don't worry about coming off that way yourself.

She's different from most women. That's why I like her.
 
Old 01-14-2014, 10:14 AM
 
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Move to Florida or don't but I cannot believe you are all that and more than enough to treat her the way you do and she begs you to stay with her?

Any sane woman that age would have tossed you in the middle of the street during rush hour a long time ago.
 
Old 01-14-2014, 10:17 AM
 
Location: SW Missouri
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If she loves you she'll move. If she won't move, then she doesn't love you enough and why are you wasting your time?

Sounds mighty simple to me.

20yrsinBranson
 
Old 01-14-2014, 10:20 AM
 
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Move to Florida or don't but I cannot believe you are all that and more than enough to treat her the way you do and she begs you to stay with her?

Any sane woman that age would have tossed you in the middle of the street during rush hour a long time ago.

Why? She has a young dude who wants more than just sex.
 
Old 01-14-2014, 10:24 AM
 
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I'm not a dbag, I'm a good man and any girl I was with can vouch for that. The distance made me a monster, but I thought this girl was worth it.
 
Old 01-14-2014, 10:25 AM
 
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I'm not a dbag or abuser. The distance created that. I felt she was worth it and the way she begged me to stay turned me on. Most women don't do that. I have a keeper. I'm just unsure of what my next move should be.
 
Old 01-14-2014, 06:35 PM
 
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You are 23 years old, and you have been with 20 women?

How in the world do you think that you are a catch considering you have been with 20 women?

What sane female would want to go out with any guy who has been with 20 women? Not me.

Seems to me that you had a lot of flings.

I was never into flings.

I was not even remotely interested in dating any guy who had been with 20 women when I was your age.

Arrogance turned me off back then and it still turns me off.

You have a lot to learn still.
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