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Old 01-14-2014, 07:38 PM
 
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Don't ever get involved with a man in his mid 30's who has never even been engaged.

He''ll run at the first sign that a relationship is work.

I had to learn this the hard way
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Old 01-14-2014, 07:40 PM
 
Location: southwestern PA
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So.... ONE guy does this and they ALL are the same?
Sorry, but you are wrong.
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Old 01-14-2014, 07:43 PM
 
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I am close to my mid-30s and I've never been engaged.

You're wrong. You just met a guy who didn't like to put work into a relationship. I've never been this way.
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Old 01-14-2014, 07:45 PM
 
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Oh lordy. Why are so many people overly dramatic after a break up?
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Old 01-14-2014, 07:45 PM
 
Location: CasaMo
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So, its OK if they ran as long as they were engaged first.
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Old 01-14-2014, 07:46 PM
 
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Guys, do yourselves a favor and don't get involved with a woman who eschews responsibility for her choices in life.

She'll blame you for everything and ignore her part in it.
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Old 01-14-2014, 07:47 PM
 
Location: The Great West
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Old 01-14-2014, 07:47 PM
 
Location: Vail, CO
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Don't ever get involved with a man in his mid 30's who has never even been engaged.

He''ll run at the first sign that a relationship is work.

I had to learn this the hard way
Well, That's disappointing.

I've never been in a relationship. Hell, I haven't even lived in the same state/country for longer than 6 Months at a time in last 10 years due to snowboarding and the first 5 years of my current career. I'm dating now since I'm in a stable place in life and actually see a point in having a relationship.

This could be why I'm struggling so much (Really, it's due to being awkward and new to the game) but this kind of nonsense doesn't help me!
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Old 01-14-2014, 07:48 PM
 
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I am close to my mid-30s and I've never been engaged.

You're wrong. You just met a guy who didn't like to put work into a relationship. I've never been this way.
You're an unusually good guy prince. You don't count ..and I never meant this in absolutes..just generally. My best friend went through this too with an older guy. I guess I should have paid attention to his commitaphobe signs. I always questioned him on that too and he said he enjoys relationships..lies.
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Old 01-14-2014, 07:49 PM
 
Location: southern california
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are you saying older men are a better pick. yes yes. thank you. spread the word.
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