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Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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You had one date, right? Why are you even thinking about this anymore. Criminy. I have no idea why you're giving this thought. I assure you, she isn't.
Be thankful that she told you after one date and it sounds like she is being honest with you.
You had a good time on your date so enjoy that and move on.
I think you were reading way too much into the first date as it was.
There is no valid reason to analyze every little action or word someone else says.
Enjoy yourself while you are there and hope it continues.
If you are going to date like this, you HAVE to be able to take a "no" and move on.
Stop obsessing and taking every little thing personally. The only way to survive online dating is to look at it purely as a business transaction in the beginning.
Honestly, your age and inexperience will betray you on this.
I think the reason I'm taking this hard is because she is without a doubt the best looking woman I have ever been out with.
Also, when she agreed to meet and when she let me pick her up, I thought we were going to have sex. Why else would a 42 year old want to see a 25 year old?
Normally when a woman brings up sex, she's thinking about sex, even if its in the negative. I think you peaked her interest at one point and probably could have slept with her night one, but you screwed up somewhere along the way.
I think the reason I'm taking this hard is because she is without a doubt the best looking woman I have ever been out with.
Also, when she agreed to meet and when she let me pick her up, I thought we were going to have sex. Why else would a 42 year old want to see a 25 year old?
Because she is used to having a driver? Maybe that is how she interviews the candidates.
I hope you are not serious when you state that you thought she wanted sex because she allowed you to use your vehicle and your gasoline to take her to dinner.
Think more with the head on top of your shoulders and you will not be so disappointed next time.
Normally when a woman brings up sex, she's thinking about sex, even if its in the negative. I think you peaked her interest at one point and probably could have slept with her night one, but you screwed up somewhere along the way.
This, or she is serial dater and you buying her dinner was about as far as it was gonna go, but I think my first post was closer to the truth.
Because she is used to having a driver? Maybe that is how she interviews the candidates.
I hope you are not serious when you state that you thought she wanted sex because she allowed you to use your vehicle and your gasoline to take her to dinner.
Think more with the head on top of your shoulders and you will not be so disappointed next time.
Sorry, I should have said - we went in her car.
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