Reservations about sleeping with someone much younger (women, children, attractive)

[Philosophizer]

Does anyone else have them? Now that I've reached the ripe old age of twenty something, it just doesn't seem right to be sleeping with someone that's not even of age to legally drink (which I believe should be lowered to 18, but that's subject I'm not looking to discuss at the moment). What can I possibly have in common with someone that much younger than me? I understand that for some, it's strictly about the sex, but I like to be able to connect on a deeper level to those I choose to be intimate with. I don't feel like I can do that the way I could with a 30-40 something mom.














That last bit was a joke btw

[Dr. Clean]

you are absolutely right, and i believe you. just stay within the scope of what makes you most comfortable. live your life on your own terms, that's what i always say. screw what others are doing or expect me to do. i am in charge of my drill.

[ipaper]

If it doesn't seem right to you, then just don't do it.

[RedZin]

You need to take people on a case-by-case basis.

Some 18yo women are more mature than 25yo women.

Some 35yo women are still children.

Same thing with men.

[osric]

Wait til you're in your 40s and you have 21-year-olds hitting on you.

[remoddahouse]

The drinking age in this country is stupid. It's higher than every other first world countries. In many countries, people start drinking on a limited basis by 16. Your point about the drinking age makes equally as much sense.

If someone's a consenting adult, then you shouldn't care. What is it that happened in your life to make you feel so shameful about things? Overbearing mother or something?

[NilaJones]

Originally Posted by RedZin

You need to take people on a case-by-case basis.

Some 18yo women are more mature than 25yo women.

Some 35yo women are still children.

Same thing with men.

True dat.

But, yeah, if it feels pervy to you, don't do it .

[jaycich]

He most be very attractive. I think most women like older guys because they give off that rough, experienced, take a woman by the movement thing.

[Frihed89]

You want us to convince you not to do what your desperately want to do, but it doesn't feel right?

OK.

Why not find out how it feels, instead of guessing, unless it will do some harm?

[dave nz]

If it instinctively feels wrong, in this case bc she is too young, then it is. I live by this.