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If you've never been out with her how can you be in love with her?
I mean, if you two already have a very close relationship, you should certainly ask her to spend some time with you. It might be the sort of break she would need because having a sick family member is very stressful.
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If you don't even know if she wants to go out with you then how do you know how she feels about being asked out right now? She may think differently than you do. She may appreciate the distraction. She may not be ready. Why don't you just ask her out if that's what you want to do and let her make that decision?
I disagree with some here...I say don't wait for the timing to be perfect, because it never will be. Something or someone else will come along before you make your move & you'll be kicking yourself later.
Oh yes, I've been there, and it was awful. We were so very much in love, we wanted to spend our lives together, grow old together, soul-mates in eternity, but sadly we could only communicate through a time-traveling mailbox at my lake house.
I'm kinda going thru that right now myself Shaka, but for you I'd say that you can at least be a friend, can't you? Offer to distract her, but don't have any needs yourself right now. My mother died 2 years ago and with someone I was attracted to I would have appreciated the invite, but alas the only man who asked me out at that time was someone I was most definitely not interested in and he was needy. Do you know where you stand with this woman? If I were her and I liked you a lot, I might not mind your being there for me and would even welcome it.
I'm kinda going thru that right now myself Shaka, but for you I'd say that you can at least be a friend, can't you? Offer to distract her, but don't have any needs yourself right now. My mother died 2 years ago and with someone I was attracted to I would have appreciated the invite, but alas the only man who asked me out at that time was someone I was most definitely not interested in and he was needy. Do you know where you stand with this woman? If I were her and I liked you a lot, I might not mind your being there for me and would even welcome it.
I guess to be honest I may like her in a love sense more than she does me. But then I like her a lot, and even if she says no, it's no issue there are others out there.
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