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Lol I do everything now! Yeah I was told," you don't want a man that's another child."
Haha, no you don't! He's not that bad....we are just having a hard time adjusting from me being home and indispensable for just about everything, to my time being reduced drastically. It'll all work out, but I've been so easy about doing everything...and I just cannot anymore.
Haha, no you don't! He's not that bad....we are just having a hard time adjusting from me being home and indispensable for just about everything, to my time being reduced drastically. It'll all work out, but I've been so easy about doing everything...and I just cannot anymore.
You shouldn't have to do everything, he can hopefully get accustomed to things changing.
The positive character traits that I'm proudest of are ones that come out in all relationships, not just the romantic ones.
1. I'm fiercely loyal.
2. I'm generous.
3. I have a nurturing, tenderhearted, and loving nature.
4. I'm creative and never get bored.
5. I'm enormously supportive.
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- easygoing
- people seem to trust me
- people like to hear my perspective because I'll call it like I see it
- reliable
- hardworking
- willing to walk from a situation when I feel I'm losing control
No need to type it all out again--these gals are my twins lol. Maybe I'm less artsy than orangeapple but I'm always generating new ideas and tend to be dreamy, due to my inattentive ADD, which is not always a negative thing. Not slim yet, but getting there.
Last summer at camp we had an exercise where we went around in a circle and said something that we like about each person. I was dreading when my ex got to me as he was at the height of his resentment towards me, but he said the best thing ever--that I am extremely kind to everyone, even under the most adverse circumstances. He would know as he provided many of those adverse circumstances!
Someone else here said they can't keep a secret. Well I can't seem to keep my own, but I can keep a friend's to my grave but only if I consider it worth keeping. Some things should be told but it probably won't come from me.
Probably not ADD......check out "extroverted intuition" in Jungian theory (if you haven't already). In MBTI, those are the xNxP types. I type as INFP, so I'm very introverted, but since extroverted intuition is secondary (introverted feeling is the first cognitive preference for my type), I focus better than ENFPs, who are extroverts but can seem absent-minded (focus on the abstract). IMO, I think a fair amount of these people get misdiagnosed as ADD when they are just imaginative & spacey, because they seem to focus & do fine when something really grabs them.
As a side rant, in our society, it increasingly feels like being "different" means you have a "disorder" requiring medication. I'd almost prefer the old fashioned write-off of "eccentric", since asking people to understand we don't all think the same or function the same way is too much. This is coming from someone who did excellent in the traditional school system, so no personal bitterness.
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You are smart, beautiful, loving, and witty,
Maybe I'm less artsy than orangeapple but I'm always generating new ideas and tend to be dreamy, due to my inattentive ADD, which is not always a negative thing. Not slim yet, but getting there. 
