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I have been talking to this girl for 3 weeks now and I have developed feelings for her. So I want to become more serious with her. Im 28 so the whole high school hey will you be my gf isnt going to happen. So we met at the gym 3 weeks ago and began talking. When I got home she had liked some of my old posts and had poked me. A little childish but she got me to wsg her. I knew her for a little while we just never really talked. So we have went out twice with her friends and i spent a couple nights at her house watching movies and cuddling on the couch. I did kiss her trying to not be shy like I usually am and she seemed really surprised I did. Later I said I didn't mean to surprise you and she said I did but she liked it. She does give me a kiss when I leave. I met her on her break from work and went to give her a kiss when she was going back but she said no public display of affection and smiled. She told me that her friends like me and they even threatened to hurt me if I hurt her lol. We talked about past relationships the other night and some other stuff. So I dunno how to go about asking her without it being awkward and high schoolish. Is it too soon to even think to ask that anyway or should I wait? Any advice would be great. Sorry for the long post and thanks to anyone who answers.
I have been talking to this girl for 3 weeks now and I have developed feelings for her. So I want to become more serious with her. Im 28 so the whole high school hey will you be my gf isnt going to happen. So we met at the gym 3 weeks ago and began talking. When I got home she had liked some of my old posts and had poked me. A little childish but she got me to wsg her. I knew her for a little while we just never really talked. So we have went out twice with her friends and i spent a couple nights at her house watching movies and cuddling on the couch. I did kiss her trying to not be shy like I usually am and she seemed really surprised I did. Later I said I didn't mean to surprise you and she said I did but she liked it. She does give me a kiss when I leave. I met her on her break from work and went to give her a kiss when she was going back but she said no public display of affection and smiled. She told me that her friends like me and they even threatened to hurt me if I hurt her lol. We talked about past relationships the other night and some other stuff. So I dunno how to go about asking her without it being awkward and high schoolish. Is it too soon to even think to ask that anyway or should I wait? Any advice would be great. Sorry for the long post and thanks to anyone who answers.
She doesn't like you like THAT!
Move on.
Seriously, she should be anticipating a kiss if she likes you. Not a surprised look.
Ask her if she would like to be a couple or not, the sooner you know the better. If you feel like you could date her, let her know that's how you feel, you don't have to ask her right then and there, just see what her reaction is...it's sort of like easing it on her without the surprise moment.
I have been talking to this girl for 3 weeks now and I have developed feelings for her. So I want to become more serious with her. Im 28 so the whole high school hey will you be my gf isnt going to happen. So we met at the gym 3 weeks ago and began talking. When I got home she had liked some of my old posts and had poked me. A little childish but she got me to wsg her. I knew her for a little while we just never really talked. So we have went out twice with her friends and i spent a couple nights at her house watching movies and cuddling on the couch. I did kiss her trying to not be shy like I usually am and she seemed really surprised I did. Later I said I didn't mean to surprise you and she said I did but she liked it. She does give me a kiss when I leave. I met her on her break from work and went to give her a kiss when she was going back but she said no public display of affection and smiled. She told me that her friends like me and they even threatened to hurt me if I hurt her lol. We talked about past relationships the other night and some other stuff. So I dunno how to go about asking her without it being awkward and high schoolish. Is it too soon to even think to ask that anyway or should I wait? Any advice would be great. Sorry for the long post and thanks to anyone who answers.
The public display of affection I agree with and the rest, since you aren't in high school act like you aren't in high school and ask her out already.
It really is not that complicated to ask her out then ask her out again, then ask her out again, lather, rinse, repeat.
You don't ask her to be a couple yet, that's just weird.
You just say, "hey this weekend, let's go out..there's something I wanna show you." *
She thinks your a turd for not officially asking her out 10 days ago..She wouldn't be 'poking' you and you wouldn't be watching movies and cuddling if she didn't like you.
Don't tell her how much you really like her, don't call/text her every ten minutes, don't even call her everyday. Don't pet her too hard, Lenny.
* I'm joking about the 'I wanna show you something' part.
I have probably already annoyed her to where she thinks im needy or clingy. I haven't tried to contact her all day and she hasnt either
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