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Old 02-22-2014, 03:17 PM
 
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I think its important for the person you're with to make you feel confident in basically all situations. No one has a perfect body so I am never quick to judge. For me and some good friends of mine, when you feel a certain way about someone they will be your prefect 10! However, if someone starts getting lazy or start slacking on their appearance that can cause come issues but thats bc the issue is more than just physical.
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Old 02-22-2014, 03:22 PM
 
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The unrealistic notion of perfection, like playboy, is airbrushed and totally unrealistic. That "perfection" is also beyond boring. Imperfections are interesting and attractive. This notion of "perfection" tends to put up inhibitions, which detracts from the experience. If both are comfortable with their bodies it is beautiful, loads of fun and more pleasant.

I'm far from perfect, if my flaws don't detracts neither will hers.
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Old 02-22-2014, 03:50 PM
 
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If she doesn't laugh at me, I don't laugh at her.

We all have flaws.
For real. The men who do have perfect bodies scare me.
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Old 02-22-2014, 03:58 PM
 
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Everyone in this world has physical flaws. But a dubious source once told me that women wear nice clothes to show off and impress other women, because if they wanted to show off and impress men they would just walk around naked. The source was an informant of mine that betrayed her gender and disclosed the contents of those secret meetings yall have disguised as "girls night out". I have to watch out.
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Old 02-22-2014, 04:26 PM
 
Location: Vail, CO
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It's whatever. If I'm interested enough to date her I would be stoked to be sleeping with her, perfect or imperfect!

Honestly, as gay as it sounds...

I worry more about how I stack up compared to other dudes at the gym than what women think about my body. Lol
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Old 02-22-2014, 04:26 PM
 
Location: In bucolic TN
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If I am going to be intimate with a woman, love is already in the equation. There is more about this woman than a warm, moist holster and two pillows. If I haven't already noticed something by feeling her body through her blouse or seeing her silhouette through her slacks, it can only get better. The erotic experience of being totally nude with your partner (no secrets, pure vulnerability) is a gift that keeps giving. Add a smile and that's a full night for me - forget the popcorn and soda, I'm going from watching to enjoying, and there's a lot of fun to be had.

I've never had more than enough and I've never stopped from ecstasy. Seeing something unexpected? If this was a she-male, I'd be on the fast train to Siberia with the 'extra,' but with a woman? There is no 'more' that wouldn't be relished. That criticism is not a part of any picture. I don't get this. I guess this is the difference of being committed to a person vs. finding a parking spot for a while.
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Old 02-22-2014, 04:29 PM
 
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I worry more about how I stack up compared to other dudes at the gym than what women think about my body. Lol
You mean like if you can bench press more than them?
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Old 02-22-2014, 04:38 PM
 
Location: Vail, CO
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You mean like if you can bench press more than them?
No.

Just body shapes and all that. I usually watch their routines to see if I can learn something new! Sometimes I just see dudes that I want to look like and kinda compare myself and figure out what I need to work on.

I've been lifting for quite a few years, everyone's gotta start somewhere! I don't care what people can lift. Lol
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Old 02-22-2014, 05:14 PM
 
Location: New Zealand and Australia
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Specific examples for me in a woman

No problem :

*Stretch marks
*cellulite
*scars
*medium or less body fat levels


Problem :

*excessive body hair
*excessive pubic hair
*high body fat levels or obese
*poor hygiene

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Old 02-22-2014, 05:23 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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A gentleman (like myself ) would never make a negative comment towards a woman's naked body in bed; no matter how imperfect.

I will however, question bullet and stab wounds
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