Would most women not like a luby duby and sexless marriage? (sex, attractive)

[zentropa]

Originally Posted by Lilac110

I would not want either a luby-duby marriage or a sexless one.

I'd want a marriage between adults, not adolescent schmoopie-kins wittle wuvvies who can't manage to get past holding hands.

I am trying to imagine the scenario the OP describes. It seems bizarre.

[Djuna]

I was thinking luby duby was some kind of play on a big fat oiled up doobie.

[2mares]

Originally Posted by Djuna

I was thinking luby duby was some kind of play on a big fat oiled up doobie.

LOL. I could take a pass on the doobie but have to have me some sex in a marriage. Come to think of it a little of both would be great (doobie + sex, not marriage).

[Pitt Chick]

Originally Posted by Djuna

I was thinking luby duby was some kind of play on a big fat oiled up doobie.

LOL!




Hey, OP - do you mean lovey-dovey, or is Djuna on the right track?

[Rakin]

Originally Posted by Djuna

I was thinking luby duby was some kind of play on a big fat oiled up doobie.

My thoughts was it's a large oiled up sex toy with a sexless marriage. Goes to show where our minds are ?

I'll share my Luby Duby if you'll share yours.

[findly185]

I'd prefer the sex without all the other stuff, but definitely not the type of scenario you're describing.

[Man with No Name]

Originally Posted by JustJulia

I don't know whether most women wouldn't like a sexless marriage (confusing syntax, by the way, and I think you mean "lovey-dovey"). I would have said definitely not, but there are some sad scenarios that pass for adequate intimacy out there. Women preferring chocolate or reality shows or whatnot. No thanks, I am not that fond of chocolate. Lovey-dovey snuggles make me more ardent, not less.

Yes, that's what I meant.

I'm very surprised by these answers. Maybe I should have said "any" instead of "most".

[JustJulia]

I can think of two married female posters here who have said that sex is something they indulge their husband in once in a while but otherwise don't care for it. They exist. I've heard more from married female posters who wish their husbands would indulge them more often, though.

[zentropa]

Originally Posted by Man with No Name

Yes, that's what I meant.

I'm very surprised by these answers. Maybe I should have said "any" instead of "most".

Why are you surprised? I would think the woman who did not want sexual intimacy with her husband would be a very, very rare person indeed. As rare as her male counterpart.

Try posting on asexuality forums?

[*Sixy*]

Originally Posted by Lilac110

I would not want either a luby-duby marriage or a sexless one.

I'd want a marriage between adults, not adolescent schmoopie-kins wittle wuvvies who can't manage to get past holding hands.

Whaaaa??? You mean you wouldn't want your husband to sing this to you every night before bed?
Come on now...every woman pines for that kind of luby-duby pet talk! Don't you???


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