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I never said anything about lying or misleading. Women like that would jump at the chance to bang someone like me. All I have to do is be honest with them and say Im not looking for anything serious, just want some fun. They understand and would be happy to go along with it.
This actually works for you or are you just assuming?
You sure are laying on thick in this thread. Just because you eat and breathe intimate relationships doesn't mean everyone else does.
You know, there's probably an impressionable young guy lurking around these threads seeking guidance and after reading this comment will probably be even more confused. We just had two threads on the friend zone recently where there was a general consensus amongst both the women and men that guys who decide to get friend-zoned are POS's who fail at life. Now I would agree with your point if a man and woman genuinely aren't attracted to each other but truly value each other as friends then great. If something more comes of that then that's great. But when one person has feelings that the other doesn't reciprocate then it's a problem and the friendship is either dead or dying.
Sorry if it sounded overly dramatic. I told the OP at the outset that if the call girl is what he wants than go for it. I just thought it would be a shame to give up on making a real connection with a woman at such a young age. Because it will get harder as he gets older.
And truthfully he didn't sound like a happy person...just a lonely one. Random sex won't change that. (Though it might make it easier to cope with.)
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I don't believe it is. Have you seen some of the people walking around outside with kids. Someone slept with them. No matter what you look like, there is always somebody a bit um less attractive who would be willing to do you. Perhaps for the people who can't get laid to save their life, lower your standards.
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I'm just unlucky. But I read somewhere that you pay for it one way of the other. Its either directly or non direct. I'm 27 years old and I believe you went through least half of the frustration I'm going through, then you might change the idea. When you keep getting friend zoned all the time, then escort is the only way to get laid for some guys like me. I just say consider yourself lucky.
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That sounds like pretty good advice to me. I wish more would take it. When I say "Anybody" can get laid, I truly believe it. It's a numbers game and a "try" game. I'm not saying they are going to get supermodels or that they might have to lower their standards. But I've seen the oddest looking people of both genders with someone or a kid. So obviously someone hit it!
I've been trying to keep my mouth shut on this because a. I'm a female and b. this is pretty personal stuff and I want to be respectful but seriously Supermanpansy, you say some hilarious stuff, "have you seen the people out here walking around!?"
Sure, why not? As a reasonably attractive woman I'd pay for a male escort if I was not married or in a relationship, so it's not just for desperate people who can't get laid.
I think it makes sense if you just need sex. You get what you want and and don't have to worry about commitments, time and hassle. That being said, you shouldn't give up trying to find a partner if that's what you want. If your awkward in person how about a dating site?
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I don't know how to dance, clubs are not available because of budget cuts, and I'm serious I don't really know how to start. The only reason I met them is because we did a group project or it was random chance from asking do you know if this is due today and so on. Other than that is it. It's all around for free if you know what to do. I think it just the nature of some guys that have ability to meet ladies why others do not. I think a escort is just much easier st least I will be able to experience it just with a some cash.
I have hobbies of course I like bowling and tennis.
I'm a senior in college and I will agree with you, college isn't the easiest in meeting new people, especially if you take into account the type of school you go to. Schools like Penn State or WVU may be significantly easier in making friends because they always have social events going on; but if you go to a small school like me, where half of the student body commutes, or came to school with the same friends from high school it can be rough
Naturally, I'm an outgoing person, and know so many people on my campus, but since I transferred to my school I found it hard making actual connections. I can't tell you how many times I'll hit it off with individuals, they'll go out of their way to say hi and come up and hug me, ask me how I'm doing, but they won't bother to invite me to hangout on a Friday night, or go to dinner. Even still, sometimes small talk, smiles, waves, and study sessions aren't enough. Those things don't always lead to friendships (and beyond) and that's for multiple reasons, so sometimes you have to put in the extra effort. For me I became an RA, and although college has been a let down in the "promise" of life long friends, me becoming involved as an RA has allowed me to meet so many people, formulate some truly great friendships (small but great) and I've even found dating prospects.
My advice to you nonetheless would be to find at least one good organization that you can get involved in. You can't just give up. If you don't like school dances because you can't dance well don't go, if you don't like a club drop it and find another one, join an organization. But you have to try, try, TRY ! The fact that you aren't willing to commit to putting an effort to be involved on campus shows a pattern and perhaps its an explanation for your troubles with women.
Also, do you have any guy friends?
I'm asking these questions because let's say you go to an escort, lose your virginity, then what??? Are you going to be like the main character in HER...have virtual relationships with women and go to escorts when you want real, physical intimacy??? There's a deeper issue you here, and if you don't find out what it is now, you'll continue to lead a lonely life.
No, I would just be screwed. I don't believe in exploiting women. It doesn't mean that every call girl is exploited, but since I wouldn't know their situation, then it's still a no. Plus, I am petrified of diseases, and I would be too terrified.
Also paying someone for sex, seems so sad..But that's just me.
OP please grow some balls. I agree 100 percent with quote from superman pansy above. I don't mean to be mean. You cannot go through life petrified to approach women. Women like guys who know what they want and are not afraid to go for it. Men these days do not realize how attractive it is for a man to start a conversation with a girl. You may not win today but tomorrow or the day after someone will give you those 10 digits and the rest is history. Go for it. Stop paying for something that feels a lot better with a nicer girl and is intimate and lovely. Don't share time with girls who pop their corks for every guy who happens to have Benjamins.
OP please grow some balls. I agree 100 percent with quote from superman pansy above. I don't mean to be mean. You cannot go through life petrified to approach women. Women like guys who know what they want and are not afraid to go for it. Men these days do not realize how attractive it is for a man to start a conversation with a girl. You may not win today but tomorrow or the day after someone will give you those 10 digits and the rest is history. Go for it. Stop paying for something that feels a lot better with a nicer girl and is intimate and lovely. Don't share time with girls who pop their corks for every guy who happens to have Benjamins.
OP please grow some balls. I agree 100 percent with quote from superman pansy above. I don't mean to be mean. You cannot go through life petrified to approach women. Women like guys who know what they want and are not afraid to go for it. Men these days do not realize how attractive it is for a man to start a conversation with a girl. You may not win today but tomorrow or the day after someone will give you those 10 digits and the rest is history. Go for it. Stop paying for something that feels a lot better with a nicer girl and is intimate and lovely. Don't share time with girls who pop their corks for every guy who happens to have Benjamins.
OP ignore anyone telling telling you to "grow some balls" say empty platitudes about "going after what you want" and other platitudes.
Op this is what you do if you want to go the escort route be sure to look up the info and reviews. Remember a escorts are human beings too so common decency and all that. If you don't want to do it then don't do it on your own volition and not because of internet diagnosis.
If the OP is still reading these responses: let me demystify sex for you. It's just like masturbating but your holding something bigger. So, not even technically but honestly, realistically if you have ever masturbated you have experienced sex.
Getting in bed with and enjoying a beautiful naked woman is not the same as masturbating.
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