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Old 06-21-2012, 02:17 PM
 
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I have liked this girl I have worked with for over a year. I know she liked me as well. I know this because she would have not given me her number and asked me during work "where would I take her out on a date" when I asked her out immediately when I found out that she was finally single. The problem is that I found out that the girl I liked so much recently broke up with her BF, because her BF found out she was sleeping with a playboy hot guy type that I know from work.

I was excited to hear she was finally single in a way, but in some ways it was bittersweet. She told me she was hooking up with this guy for the past 6 months behind her bf's back. I asked questions and she has been open with me by telling me she was going to break up with him eventually, but was going to avoid telling him about the affair.

I really like her and in more ways I could care less if she is going to continue to see this other guy. However, something is telling me that this is not the right thing to do. Mod cut: Not PG-13. However I think she wants more from me, kind of thinking she had put me in the provider type.

What would you call a women who sleeps behind her bf's back without telling them and had every single intention to dump him. Mod cut: Gender bashing. It is just more of the ethics (i still feel pretty bad about her bf). Can I just get what I want from her without being in a committed relationship. She obviously knows the guys she is hooking up with is not relationship material. Or ethically maybe I should just get over her, since she has made a point to her other people.

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Old 06-21-2012, 02:22 PM
 
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"What would you call a women who sleeps behind her bf's back without telling them and had every single intention to dump him."


A cheater.
 
Old 06-21-2012, 02:24 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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Originally Posted by DipGrant View Post
I have liked this girl I have worked with for over a year. I know she liked me as well. I know this because she would have not given me her number and asked me during work "where would I take her out on a date" when I asked her out immediately when I found out that she was finally single. The problem is that I found out that the girl I liked so much recently broke up with her BF, because her BF found out she was sleeping with a playboy hot guy type that I know from work.

I was excited to hear she was finally single in a way, but in some ways it was bittersweet. She told me she was hooking up with this guy for the past 6 months behind her bf's back. I asked questions and she has been open with me by telling me she was going to break up with him eventually, but was going to avoid telling him about the affair.

I really like her and in more ways I could care less if she is going to continue to see this other guy. However, something is telling me that this is not the right thing to do. Mod cut: Orphaned.

What would you call a women who sleeps behind her bf's back without telling them and had every single intention to dump him. Mod cut: Orphaned. It is just more of the ethics (i still feel pretty bad about her bf). Can I just get what I want from her without being in a committed relationship. She obviously knows the guys she is hooking up with is not relationship material. Or ethically maybe I should just get over her, since she has made a point to her other people.
Well it sounds like neither of you are looking for a committed relationship. You want what you want and she recently came out out of a relationship to boot. Just be upfront about it and tell her you expect the same.

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Old 06-21-2012, 02:25 PM
 
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I'd call her unfaithful and not someone you should want to be with.

But I guess that isn't the issue since Mod cut: Orphaned.

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Old 06-21-2012, 02:27 PM
 
Location: Woodinville
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What would you call a women who sleeps behind her bf's back
I'd call her a */#$&!
 
Old 06-21-2012, 02:27 PM
 
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I'd call her unfaithful and not someone you should want to be with.

Mod cut: Orphaned.
Yeah, what's the dilemma? If you're honest about you want, why not?

Sounds like you two are perfect for each other ... for one night.

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Old 06-21-2012, 02:29 PM
 
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Yeah, what's the dilemma? If you're honest about you want, why not?

Sounds like you two are perfect for each other ... for one night.
No dilemma at all. But he mentions he really likes her. Then says the one night is fine. Which one is it??

And to the OP, why care what kind of woman she is if you just want to hook-up?
 
Old 06-21-2012, 02:41 PM
 
Location: Virginia Beach, VA
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There are a number of non PG terms for that.
 
Old 06-21-2012, 02:44 PM
 
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I'd call you a fool for thinking you have a future with this woman
 
Old 06-21-2012, 02:51 PM
 
Location: On the corner of Grey Street
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Sounds like you're perfect for each other.
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