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Old 03-16-2014, 05:15 PM
 
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Unfortunately unless everyone the dog is close to adopts the behavior that stops it from barking all the training in he world will be for nothing, It will revert over time.

Unless your GF understands and agrees about the dogs behavior I'm not sure this is something you will ever have resolved.

The other option is a bark collar....but judging from what you say about her demeanor towards the dog I doubt she would be ok with something that inflicts pain as a form of discipline.

You have to make her understand just what the issues are...which unfortunately doesn't seem to be working

This is probably one time an ultimatum may be necessary.

Train the dog or...

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Old 03-16-2014, 05:16 PM
 
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Unfortunately she think that it is inhumane to stop the dog from barking. I've tried to ask her to do something about this and used to look into it a while ago. When she refuse to take it into considerations, I pretty much stopped as it is like talking to a wall.
If she's not willing to work with the dog on its issues ( I'm assuming it's a small " purse dog") then there's your answer. I don't allow my dog to bark in the apartment, only growl if there's random people going by to the neighbors.
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Old 03-16-2014, 05:18 PM
 
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Ugh! I'm not liking the looks of this... I really like this girl for the most part, but... I can't lose my place over her dog not behaving and the neighbors are already not liking me.

Her dog is a border collie, not one of those tiny dog.
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Old 03-16-2014, 05:20 PM
 
Location: Windsor, Ontario, Canada
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Border Collies are intelligent dogs. Training shouldn't be an issue if you both work at it.
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Old 03-16-2014, 05:21 PM
 
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Ugh! I'm not liking the looks of this... I really like this girl for the most part, but... I can't lose my place over her dog not behaving and the neighbors are already not liking me.

Her dog is a border collie, not one of those tiny dog.
Border collies are smart, sometimes smarter then the owners unfortunately.
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Old 03-16-2014, 05:21 PM
 
Location: SF Bay Area
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Border Collies are intelligent dogs. Training shouldn't be an issue if you both work at it.

Yep, but they need ALOT of exercise. If not, they'll get fidgety and bark.
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Old 03-16-2014, 05:24 PM
 
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Ugh! Guess I'll have to give her a ultimatum. This is really not sounding good at all.

No wonder the dog was acting up. From a land with huge free space to roam in to a small condo. Totally not good for the dog.

Yeah... Well guess it is all in her hands now. I'm done with trying to make thing work with the dog. The dog shouldn't even be here in the first place.
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Old 03-16-2014, 05:26 PM
 
Location: Windsor, Ontario, Canada
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^^ Not considering maybe renting a house with her?
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Old 03-16-2014, 05:27 PM
 
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^^ Not considering maybe renting a house with her?

I thought he said he bought his condo 4 years ago but I could be mistaken.
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Old 03-16-2014, 05:28 PM
 
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Ugh! Guess I'll have to give her a ultimatum. This is really not sounding good at all.

No wonder the dog was acting up. From a land with huge free space to roam in to a small condo. Totally not good for the dog.

Yeah... Well guess it is all in her hands now. I'm done with trying to make thing work with the dog. The dog shouldn't even be here in the first place.
With a high energy dog it is possible to keep them happy in a condo, but expect long daily runs in the least, otherwise not going to work
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