clearing up the meaning of "being responsible for your own pleasure"

[temazepam]

Was it the alcohol that made this couple air their dirty laundry?

[CrueRulz]

Originally Posted by NilaJones

What a horribly violent image.

You cant force a man to orgasm any more often than you can a woman. And, either way, it is rape. It sounds like that therapist has major issues.

I didn't interperet it as a literal statement - the context of the conversation (this was one of those radio call in shows, probably in the '90s) was that if she doesn't want to have an orgasm, her partner can't make her no matter how good at sex that partner is. It was a metaphor.

[CrueRulz]

Originally Posted by temazepam

Was it the alcohol that made this couple air their dirty laundry?

I would assume so.

[Ted Bear]

There's an old expression: If you don't think she's being enough of a woman; try being more of a man.

[TimR76]

Originally Posted by Ted Bear

There's an old expression: If you don't think she's being enough of a woman; try being more of a man.

A pretty sensible statement, but it means so many different things to so many people, you might try that, and find, that you're more of a man, but maybe not more of the right KIND of man.