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Old 03-31-2014, 03:24 PM
 
Location: Southern Illinois
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OP, happened to me too. Have fun lol! I'll tell you what I tell my teen students--if you don't want to get into trouble, don't get alone with them. Keep it public till you're ready to sleep with them or you'll be having too many ONS and I'm thinking that's what you mean by complicating the dating scene.
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Old 03-31-2014, 03:28 PM
 
Location: Reno, NV
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Date some bottom dwellers - that should kill the desire fast.
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Old 03-31-2014, 05:14 PM
 
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I'm in my prime, late thirties and want sex all the time. I was never like this until i hit 37. It kind of makes dating more complicated. I feel more sexual than ever now. Before i used to be such a prude and can go without sex for over a year, now its like BOOM,here I am. I think about men and sex quite frequently. I can't believe I am admitting this on the internet. Thoughts? Cures? Tips?
This post made me smile. Same thing happened to me at 38. Of course, that could have something to do with getting divorced, but we'll ignore that and go with the fact that right before women head into perimenopause, estrogen starts to decline but testosterone stays the same for a few years. When it happened to me, I actually felt bad for men, like, "How do you people LIVE like this?"

I would tell you to think about the Pill, but my experience with the Pill after 35 is that it not only took away my drive to have sex, it took away my will to live. Overkill, no pun intended.

Really, you just need to find a lover who won't drive you crazy. Some guy to thrill you, and then go away.

P.S. Now is the time to go with a younger man. Trust me on this.
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Old 03-31-2014, 05:32 PM
 
Location: FAIRFAX, VA
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This post made me smile. Same thing happened to me at 38. Of course, that could have something to do with getting divorced, but we'll ignore that and go with the fact that right before women head into perimenopause, estrogen starts to decline but testosterone stays the same for a few years. When it happened to me, I actually felt bad for men, like, "How do you people LIVE like this?"

I would tell you to think about the Pill, but my experience with the Pill after 35 is that it not only took away my drive to have sex, it took away my will to live. Overkill, no pun intended.

Really, you just need to find a lover who won't drive you crazy. Some guy to thrill you, and then go away.

P.S. Now is the time to go with a younger man. Trust me on this.
Happy to have made you smile. Finally someone can relate to me and this whole new experience, it's definitely eye opening because anytime I'm around men, i get this warm sensation, some type of attraction, it's weird. I used to be very good at keeping my cool around good looking guys, but damn i can't help myself
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Old 03-31-2014, 05:34 PM
 
Location: The Triad
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I'm in my prime, late thirties and want sex all the time. I was never like this until i hit 37. It kind of makes dating more complicated. I feel more sexual than ever now. Before i used to be such a prude and can go without sex for over a year, now its like BOOM,here I am. I think about men and sex quite frequently. I can't believe I am admitting this on the internet.

Thoughts? Cures? Tips?

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Old 03-31-2014, 05:37 PM
 
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Happy to have made you smile. Finally someone can relate to me and this whole new experience, it's definitely eye opening because anytime I'm around men, i get this warm sensation, some type of attraction, it's weird. I used to be very good at keeping my cool around good looking guys, but damn i can't help myself
I prescribe a man 5 to 10 years younger. You're 37, so I think 29 is ideal: Young enough to keep up with you, but too old and (hopefully) grown up to be a MILF-seeking horndog.

Just be careful. You may actually end up in a relationship with him. That happened to me, too.
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Old 03-31-2014, 06:53 PM
 
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I'm in my prime, late thirties and want sex all the time. I was never like this until i hit 37. It kind of makes dating more complicated. I feel more sexual than ever now. Before i used to be such a prude and can go without sex for over a year, now its like BOOM,here I am. I think about men and sex quite frequently. I can't believe I am admitting this on the internet. Thoughts? Cures? Tips?

cure???

you just wrote the ultimate profile on match.com or e-harmony
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Old 03-31-2014, 07:43 PM
 
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Lol at all the suggestions for
a younger guy.....
At 39 serendipity put me in alignment with
a younger guy who actually could keep up with me
It was pretty amazing- especially since he
was my neighbor & best friend lol
That ended about 18months ago-
haven't found anyone with a drive like that since
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Old 03-31-2014, 08:22 PM
 
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Occasionally, I feel like I'd like to bully some tough dude into pleasuring me.
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Old 03-31-2014, 08:27 PM
 
Location: Southern Illinois
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If men want younger women and women want younger men. . . ? It's tough out there man!
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