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I see no reason to think marriage has anything to do with when people choose to have sex. Certainly due to the relationship I am in - where marriage simply is not an option that is available to us - the notion of sex after marriage would either preclude sex - or preclude our relationship entirely. But it has not - and not only is there plenty of sex - there is as of a week and a half a second child.
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Originally Posted by augiedogie
If anyone takes the Bible seriously
Thankfully less and less people seem to do so. And more and more people evaluate whether there is _actually something wrong_ with an action rather than simple take the word of some bronze aged author alien to modernity.
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Originally Posted by MynameisnotPeter
I'm not religious but I have morals. How terrible those things are terrible!
I would not think that some of them are all that terrible at all. I see nothing wrong with most of them per se - though clearly each one is an umberella term for a large variety of activities - some of which I am entirely against - and some of which I see no problem with at all.
Personally, after a certain age it doesn't matter. I can understand (from a parent's POV) that it applies to teens and early 20 somethings, but after a point its moot.
Of course, some people will perceive it as wrong for a variety of reasons that generally have little logical foundation, such as Bronze Age scribblings in an ancient book chock full of nonsensical rules and dictates.
Of course, some people will perceive it as wrong for a variety of reasons that generally have little logical foundation, such as Bronze Age scribblings in an ancient book chock full of nonsensical rules and dictates.
For real, Disney makes more sense than some ancients ruling the life of current mankind.
This poll is kind of biased/incomplete, given that there are plenty of folk who consider that marriage is unnecessary or optional and a number of people are not okay with marriage at all and think it should be banned due to its outdated practices and norms on property handling or presumption of paternity.
Making a question about "sex before or after" marriage" in the way it's done in this poll is thus excluding them from the equation, given that it implies that marriage must be the final result of a long-term relationship.
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For her, I say wait until after marriage. 
