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Old 04-21-2014, 08:25 PM
 
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But there's definitely more open doors for those with college degrees vs those without.
Sure, but there are benefits to delaying college until she is in her late 20s or early 30s, too. Long as she does not have a kid.

The problem is, you two have different values and priorities at this time. It's not that hers are wrong.
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Old 04-21-2014, 08:34 PM
 
Location: Canada
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I wouldn't date a girl who goes out parting 5-6 days a week. Not my style.. but I guess me and my gf go out and drink at bars together about 3 or 4 times a week? However, we're not getting smashed and she's not out with a bunch of random dudes.

Either way, there has to be respect in the relationship. If the OP can't respect his woman, he shouldn't be with her. He shouldn't have to change for her and she shouldn't have to change for him.
What's this about a GF?
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Old 04-21-2014, 08:47 PM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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What's this about a GF?
Got back with the ex

She apologized, explained everything to me and everything has been nice. Week long break wasn't so bad.
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Old 04-21-2014, 08:52 PM
 
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At 20 years old and one sort of relationship I don't see any life experience at all between the two of you.
Right now quit trying to guide her in the direction you think she should go. Either accepther as is and accept the fact that she may not change in the future or move on.
It is obvious she does not have any goal at the moment let alone the same goal as you.
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Old 04-21-2014, 08:56 PM
 
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Got back with the ex

She apologized, explained everything to me and everything has been nice. Week long break wasn't so bad.

I am dying to know the explanation, if she wouldn't mind you telling us.
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Old 04-21-2014, 09:09 PM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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I am dying to know the explanation, if she wouldn't mind you telling us.

Can't share that one publicly.
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Old 04-21-2014, 09:11 PM
 
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Can't share that one publicly.
Dude, now I have blue forum balls .

Anyway, I am glad all is well for you two .
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Old 04-21-2014, 09:23 PM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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Dude, now I have blue forum balls .

Anyway, I am glad all is well for you two .
I told you in your rep comment

But thank you!
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Old 04-21-2014, 09:47 PM
 
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Thank you ).

And wow. Life imitates CDR. O_o.
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Old 04-21-2014, 09:53 PM
 
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Best to move on. You have outgrown her.
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