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Old 04-24-2014, 12:43 PM
 
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Me and my ex boyfriend were great friends before we started dating and I always feared a breakup would ruin our friendship.. Well we did breakup. It was because we fought all the time and were better as friends. We both love each other but now he is going out of his way to be mean and nasty to me. Posting mean things directed toward me on the internet, blocking me, cursing me out, wanting nothing to do with me. How can he forget our friendship and just drop me? Is he just hurt or does he really not care?
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Old 04-24-2014, 12:45 PM
 
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Why are you looking at what he is writing and continuing to fight with him

His anger is for him to decide to let go of or not. Don't waste your time wondering

Let go

The first step is getting away from the source of your conflict.
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Old 04-24-2014, 12:47 PM
 
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What you are describing is not love. Block him from your social media pages and walk away.
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Old 04-24-2014, 12:55 PM
 
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Why should you care? Do you really want to be around someone who'd treat you badly for no apparent reason at all? Who cares what's his issue. Friend or not he doesn't get to treat you this way.

Don't try to save him or worry what is it you've done. It's his issue and kind mature "normal" people don't do this, especially w/o communicating what's this all about.

Just move on because now you're seeing the real him. So get off fantasy land thinking your love and patience will bring back what you had.
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Old 04-24-2014, 12:55 PM
 
Location: NY
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Block him and move on. He has shown his true colors, that of a pathetic jerk who has to emotionally abuse you now that you two are broken up.
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Old 04-24-2014, 12:57 PM
 
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Sometimes you just have to accept that you're not compatible.
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Old 04-24-2014, 12:57 PM
 
Location: Missouri
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The friendship is probably over, just like the relationship. Just let it go.
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Old 04-24-2014, 01:02 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Go silent.It speaks volumes to the other person.
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Old 04-24-2014, 01:09 PM
 
Location: U.S.A.
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Hurt people generally want to hurt others, so they flip out and get angry.. One of my exes was like that. After I broke up with him, he would not let go and I had to block him. Lost [what I thought was] a pretty good friendship, but after his constant b*tch-fits I say good riddance!
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Old 04-24-2014, 02:47 PM
 
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Me and my ex boyfriend were great friends before we started dating and I always feared a breakup would ruin our friendship.. Well we did breakup. It was because we fought all the time and were better as friends. We both love each other but now he is going out of his way to be mean and nasty to me. Posting mean things directed toward me on the internet, blocking me, cursing me out, wanting nothing to do with me. How can he forget our friendship and just drop me? Is he just hurt or does he really not care?
And people wonder why I support the concept of no-contact.

You're not better as friends, mainly because he's an abusive ahole. Friends don't say mean things about friends on the internet, block them, curse them out, or want nothing to do with them. He's treating you badly, he doesn't want to be your friend, and you don't need him in your life. Get rid of him.
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