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Old 04-25-2014, 02:55 AM
 
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Hi guys,

I am married. I have a female second cousin (both our grandfathers are brothers) who is a very quiet girl and sometimes provocative. When she was 16 she always wanted to talk things and incited me to touch her body and talk about sexual fantasies. I'd three moments with her like this and gave up and never had long stay or contact with her for a long time, i actually said i am sorry to her that i lost my control and told her not to be provocative again.

Now when she is 21 she's got a boyfriend, and she actually showed some signs like teasing me, staying with me but not doing previous discussions. She dresses sometime provocative and believe i am faithful in any discussion and i am a good asset in exploring and advising about her relationships. She also teases me about her female friend who used to talk to her about me and so on.....to get my attention.

What is worse is that she keeps me loosing control anytime i sit with her, now she is way better than before, horny and somehow i sense that she wants it with me but is afraid and she understood the same about me.

Guys help me please, what should I do....
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Old 04-25-2014, 03:08 AM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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If you weren't married, I'd say hit and keep it on a DL, so family gatherings won't be so awkward, Lol.

Just avoid being around her if you can't control yourself.
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Old 04-25-2014, 08:13 AM
 
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Hi guys,

I am married. I have a female second cousin (both our grandfathers are brothers) who is a very quiet girl and sometimes provocative. When she was 16 she always wanted to talk things and incited me to touch her body and talk about sexual fantasies. I'd three moments with her like this and gave up and never had long stay or contact with her for a long time, i actually said i am sorry to her that i lost my control and told her not to be provocative again.

Now when she is 21 she's got a boyfriend, and she actually showed some signs like teasing me, staying with me but not doing previous discussions. She dresses sometime provocative and believe i am faithful in any discussion and i am a good asset in exploring and advising about her relationships. She also teases me about her female friend who used to talk to her about me and so on.....to get my attention.

What is worse is that she keeps me loosing control anytime i sit with her, now she is way better than before, horny and somehow i sense that she wants it with me but is afraid and she understood the same about me.

Guys help me please, what should I do....
Divorce your sister and marry your second cousin?
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Old 04-25-2014, 08:22 AM
 
Location: Columbus, OH
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Tell your wife, you never know where a cat fight can lead
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Old 04-25-2014, 08:35 AM
 
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So you complain about who your sister-in-laws date. Meanwhile, you want to bone your cousin.

//www.city-data.com/forum/relat...date-some.html
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Old 04-26-2014, 08:39 PM
 
Location: In bucolic TN
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I think you should get some serious therapy. In each scenario I've read from you, there is an inordinate desire to kill your existing relationship. For your wife and family's sake, get help. There is no better, despite your vantage point. And all these women turn you on? You need a negative incentive - consider a small guillotine and placing a body part in it when with anyone other than your wife.
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Old 04-26-2014, 08:44 PM
 
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Isn't this a new incarnation of a deleted thread from a frequently banned poster? There was a thread from last Sunday in the same vein. It was subsequently deleted. The same fate should meet this thread.
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Old 04-26-2014, 09:14 PM
 
Location: SF Bay Area
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Dear Ado,

I'm giving you the same exact advice I gave you in your "Short Relationship" thread: //www.city-data.com/forum/relat...tionships.html

It's normal to have the 7-year itch as long as you don't scratch it.
It will bleed and get infected and, even if you don't lose the limb, you will be scarred the rest of your life.
Go do some sports before your cousin's bf kills you.

Regards,

jaypee
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Old 04-26-2014, 09:14 PM
 
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Dude, you're married. It's not that hard to avoid her. How many occasions/year come up where you two are together, anyway? 2nd cousins are usually pretty distant. I call: bogus thread.
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Old 04-26-2014, 09:43 PM
 
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Hilarious. Thanks for making me laugh hysterically.
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