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I met her about 8 months ago and we have gotten along very well recently. The problem is she has a boyfriend and is moving back home to TX next week... (This already sounds like a lost cause but) She has been calling and texting me a lot lately and has been hanging out with me almost every night this week until 4-5am. I'm never going to get to see her again most likely when she moves home in 6 days. I feel like she has been giving me signs and opportunities to make a move but hooking up with her never realistically crossed my mind until a few weeks ago and I don't know what to do.
A big part of me wants to make a move before I never ever will get to again but also a small part of me wants to just forget about it and stop dwelling on what could have been and just move on
I'm definitely leaning towards going for it... is that a bad idea?
I appreciate the opinions and still don't know what to do. She came by earlier and wants me to drink with her tonight [(she has a bottle of wine and said we should split it so its not like shes just trying to get me to drink her up for free or anything)which I wouldn't have a problem doing] so I don't think i'm crazy at all for thinking she wants me to make a move. I do kind of feel bad for her bf but ... idk
I appreciate the opinions and still don't know what to do. She came by earlier and wants me to drink with her tonight [(she has a bottle of wine and said we should split it so its not like shes just trying to get me to drink her up for free or anything)which I wouldn't have a problem doing] so I don't think i'm crazy at all for thinking she wants me to make a move. I do kind of feel bad for her bf but ... idk
She is involved in a relationship yet she comes by your place to let you know that she has a bottle of wine which she would like you to share with her.
So exactly why is she involved in a relationship with another guy if she is acting like this?
Why would she want you to make a move?
Why are you justifying your bad behavior and her bad behavior?
Why would even want to get further involved with her if she is willing to cheat on her boyfriend with you?
Do you think she would even stay true to you after cheating with her?
She is involved in a relationship yet she comes by your place to let you know that she has a bottle of wine which she would like you to share with her.
So exactly why is she involved in a relationship with another guy if she is acting like this?
Why would she want you to make a move?
Why are you justifying your bad behavior and her bad behavior?
Why would even want to get further involved with her if she is willing to cheat on her boyfriend with you?
Do you think she would even stay true to you after cheating with her?
There's a lot about the situation that doesn't make sense, OP. It looks like you'll just have to ask her what's on her mind if you want to understand why she's spending so much time with you, including several near all-nighters. You could start out by asking, "Is everything ok between you and ________ (bf's name here)?" And if she says, "yes, why?", you can tell her you were wondering why she was spending so much time with you all of a sudden.
And btw, where has her bf been all these nights she's been out with you?
I suspect the OP's view of how things are, are completely skewed which is why just about everything he's saying doesn't add up/make sense.
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