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So I was contacted by a guy on one of these online sites. He paid me a compliment, I thanked him. He's from out of town and I figured nothing will come of it.
Couple of days later, he writes me and says he's in my area and will like to see me the same day. Typically, I don't even like to exchange numbers with a guy until we've talked for a while. Also, I prefer us meeting at a coffee shop for the first date to see if there's an interest. He was insistent and nice. Against my better judgment I agreed.
He wanted to take me out to a restaurant and asked me to suggest one close to me. I suggested one that has rave reviews but which I'd never been to and provided him their address and phone number. He agrees to meet.
The third day, he sends me a series of texts, saying How come I recommended such a pricey restaurant. That he hates these rich people hoity toity places. That he's a blue collar worker and I'm white collar and I should have recommended something cheaper.
I am shocked to say the least because on the date, he raved about the food and never mentioned cost.
What is 420 and what does it have to do with the date?
I agree about the restaurant, a bit of research would have helped find a nice but less expensive place.
So I was contacted by a guy on one of these online sites. He paid me a compliment, I thanked him. He's from out of town and I figured nothing will come of it.
Couple of days later, he writes me and says he's in my area and will like to see me the same day. Typically, I don't even like to exchange numbers with a guy until we've talked for a while. Also, I prefer us meeting at a coffee shop for the first date to see if there's an interest. He was insistent and nice. Against my better judgment I agreed.
He wanted to take me out to a restaurant and asked me to suggest one close to me. I suggested one that has rave reviews but which I'd never been to and provided him their address and phone number. He agrees to meet.
The third day, he sends me a series of texts, saying How come I recommended such a pricey restaurant. That he hates these rich people hoity toity places. That he's a blue collar worker and I'm white collar and I should have recommended something cheaper.
I am shocked to say the least because on the date, he raved about the food and never mentioned cost.
CONTD
He sounds like an idiot but I wouldn't stop dating because of that.
What is 420 and what does it have to do with the date?
I agree about the restaurant, a bit of research would have helped find a nice but less expensive place.
What is 420 and what does it have to do with the date?
I agree about the restaurant, a bit of research would have helped find a nice but less expensive place.
420 is code speak for pot smoking. OP, I wouldn't let it get to me...one bad apple does not a cart make.
He makes this comment "What was I expecting? That you would take me to your home and f%%k" which further shocks me.
But then I realize, his anger is not about the restaurant. It was because he intended to sleep with me on this first date and because he didn't get it and I didn't talk to him the second day, he decided to show his anger to me.
Mind you, I thanked him for a lovely dinner after the meal via words and text.
The whole situation just maddens me. It's been a long time since I met a guy who expected sex on the first date or after buying me a meal. It just rubs me the wrong way.
I am going back with a vengeance to my former stance. First dates will be in a coffee shop. It doesn't matter if the guy insists on a restaurant.
2nd date will be in a restaurant and I'd make him pick or, I will ensure he checks out their prices before hand.
What is 420 and what does it have to do with the date?
I agree about the restaurant, a bit of research would have helped find a nice but less expensive place.
It means weed and he asked me twice to smoke it with him. I don't smoke and it was an instant turnoff, but I just told him nicely "Thanks. But I don't smoke weed"
So apparently guys carry weed with them now.
Last edited by Peacelilies; 05-02-2014 at 11:52 AM..
I would/do crawl the floors through raw sewage to get the money to pay for it.
Climb on top of a commercial high rise/skyscraper building roof as well.
I wouldn't. If I were treating, he would get what I could easily afford. lol
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