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Christina Aguilera and others have said they find women, inc naked women, more beautiful/sexier than men yet still identify as straight. I won't go into the many possible reasons for that, except to say I believe it's largely social-conditioning, fashion, seeing things through the male POV...I largely agree with the blog above.
But anyway, I've heard some women (who say they are straight) go as far to say that they aren't even aroused by their own boyfriends/husband's body. Would that put a dampener on things, or would it not affect you? Would you find it acceptable?
Likewise, to turn it around, women, what if your man said he didn't find your body sexy, or found men sexier, yet claimed to be straight?
In this case i don't think the differences between sexuality is to do with it, but how women are almost always the ones portrayed erotically/sexually while men are basically de-sexualised in our culture. It seems only in gay culture are men truly sexualised, although there are a few examples in hetero culture. A few David Beckham underwear ads though are definitely the exception here...by far
Personally, even if they're a minority, I think I have a need to be seen as sexual/erotic...maybe some guys don't, but maybe if women can't offer that I'll have to go gay? lol jk
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This is up there on the things I don't give a crap about. If I'm seeing someone and she digs me and we have a blast, I couldn't give one flying fig about what she thinks about the male body in a general or the female body for that matter.
You're mixing topics really. What my partner thinks about me in specific is a completely different issue about what they think of a gender in general.
I think nothing of it and it doesn't bother me in the least. Bc, as a sexually active male there will always be a good % of women that don't think that way.
I can't possibly understand a person finding their own gender more attractive than the opposite gender and still be straight. That is too strange to me. This is a very strange world we are living in nowadays.
Men, what do you think of the idea of women considering other women more beautiful/sexy than men?
And what if your girl wasn't aroused by your naked body?
I'd think she had better taste than some. At least we'd agree on something.
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