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Long story short, my gf and I started of as friends before we got into a relationship so we know a lot about our sexual histories. Not too long ago I went through my internets history because I forgot to bookmark something and I found out she has been constantly browsing through a guys facebook page. They used to have a little sexual relationship going on a few months before I met her, but nothing more than 2 or 3 "action sequences".
So I have a few questions. When does fantasizing about someone else start getting risky? Am I overreacting for being uneasy about this situation?
So she is definitely fantasizing about this guy because she has looked at his facebook page a few times?
Did she tell you she fantasizes about him or is this your own thought process?
Perhaps you should break it off with her now since you are suspicious just from her looking at a facebook page and be sure your next girlfriend has no friends, no social media, has never had a boyfriend and never talks to anyone unless you approve.
She doesn't look at pretty much anyones page not even mine but shes always on his, thats what raises suspicion lol. But yea you have a point, I could just be overreacting.
I'd call that nosiness or snooping myself, not fantasizing.
And I think fantasizing can be harmless, but also depends on who's doing it. Some people, and certain personality types can easily go into dangerous territory when with someone they don't know, or someone they do know but haven't spoken to, and build them up into something they're not, put them on a pedestal, create a whole life with them in their mind. Think celebrity stalkers, and other obsessive personality types, people trapped in their own heads and out of touch with reality.
I looked at one of my exes Facebook pages today. He looked like he was balding and I was checking to see how much! I also like looking at pictures of his adorable family - they look really happy! He was a great guy so I like seeing pics of him being happy. Oh - and I wasn't being mean about the balding thing - I was just curious.
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