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Ok so my girlfreind of 18 months just broke up with me for smoking hookah.. Okay its a dealbreaker for her, but what I dont get is that she knew I smoked before we even first started dating. I only do it every once in a while, im not addicted or anything. And knowing that, she still dated me for a year and a half. 2 months ago we got in a big argument because of it, and i promised her ill stop. But recently I ended up doing it again, and I told her about it myself and she got hella mad and is like im not dating a smoker, you lied to me, you promised youll stop.
But I only do it every once in a while, like once a month, its not affecting my smell my mouth taste or nothing, I dont see why its such a big deal if she already knew I did it... She doesnt even apprecate that i barely do it now. Okay I lied, and she takes lieing seriously.. but shes breaking up with me cause Im a smoker, not because i lied. wev had our problems in the past, is she just fed up or what?
Shes like "You chose hookah over me, thats not love, why dont you go marry hookah" and like smoking is disgusting, and extremly unattractive, and she cant stand it.. but again, she dated me for 18 months, knowing from day one i did it.
Last edited by Blessed12; 05-10-2014 at 12:10 AM..
She used to want to try it with me, to see why i like it.. But she went from wanting to do it to wanting to break up with me over it... i really dont get it
Smart girl. If you lied to her about that one thing what would you lie about next ? Trust is the cornerstone of every relationship, and you broke that trust. Plus, that habit is REALLY disgusting.
I think it's because you lied to her. Many people smoke so I don't see why she'd leave you just because you smoke. And that would be kinda immature. Or maybe she had other intentions? Never loved you much? Fell for another guy? You wouldn't know...
Btw, I personally find a sight of hot guy smoking hookah attractive.
You like hookah more than your relationship. That's the problem.
Besides, if you're having trouble with this issue, I imagine there are several others you're not even aware of.
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