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I always thought cheeky meant your butt was falling out of your shorts.
They make "cheeky" underwear now at Victoria Secret too. And your cheeks really do hang out. However, I don't think that was what he meant in this circumstance as my cheeks have always been fully covered!
It was always suspected that my father engaged in them while he was married to my mom.
This was due to his behavior.
I vaguely remember his getting an STD while married.
You have every right to feel negatively based on your situation, no one can take those feelings away from you. But projecting your values onto the op--who clearly sees ons differently--isn't fair. You don't have to agree with her decision and can think it's the worse thing in the world, but after you gave your initial input I don't see why you continued to harp on her about it as if your values were right and hers were wrong. Neither of you is right, IMO, it's to each their own. I don't do ons and never will, due to the values I have but the op is an adult with different values and she shouldn't be demonized because she doesn't feel the way you do.
I give her kudos for continuing to have discourse with you.
Back to the op, I think it was just harmless flirting. If I were you I would ask him if he's married before pursuing anything. It can be subtle like "So any girlfriends or wife's that I should worry about?" Something that might be along the ways of how you two normally joke.
You have every right to feel negatively based on your situation, no one can take those feelings away from you. But projecting your values onto the op--who clearly sees ons differently--isn't fair. You don't have to agree with her decision and can think it's the worse thing in the world, but after you gave your initial input I don't see why you continued to harp on her about it as if your values were right and hers were wrong. Neither of you is right, IMO, it's to each their own. I don't do ons and never will, due to the values I have but the op is an adult with different values and she shouldn't be demonized because she doesn't feel the way you do.
Exactly what is the appeal of sex with no intimacy?
Exactly how does casual sex make you *general you* feel wanted and appreciated as a female?
Well not EVERYONE has same values like the other poster said. I myself can't have sex with no intimacy. SO like the OP said she is an adult so why do you keep chastising her?
Well not EVERYONE has same values like the other poster said. I myself can't have sex with no intimacy. SO like the OP said she is an adult so why do you keep chastising her?
Just asking a question.
That is all.
So I will re-word it.
What is the appeal of sex with no intimacy?
How does having casual sex make you *general you* feel wanted and appreciated as a female?
Funny you asked that. I was just about to ask what happened with the janitor at the hospital.
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