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Old 05-22-2014, 12:39 AM
 
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Hello guys! I need some help from you First,I'm Russian and I have an American boyfriend.
I start to find our relationship very complicated, a lot of misunderstandings and things like that. Tell me, what you need in a relationship with a girl? What you do not like in a girls? What would you like to see in your soul mate? I am kind and caring, a little emotional sometimes,and I see that he doesnt like it. Also I can't pretend that I'm happy if I'm not. I don't have a big experience in relationship with American guys and I really want to understand what they are appreciate in a relationship. Thanks in advance
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Old 05-22-2014, 01:26 AM
 
Location: Copenhagen, Denmark
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Are you a strong woman who can get what she wants on her own, without having a man being your "keeper"? Do you like your independence and dislike it when a man tries to tell who you can see and where you can go alone or with friends? Do you dislike jealous men? Are you used to putting down your limits/borders, and having men respect them? Have you had many sex partners?

If you answered yes to all these questions, you're in the wrong country.
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Old 05-22-2014, 01:39 AM
 
Location: Tricity, PL
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You need to tell us more, why it's so "complicated".
Cultural differences? Language barrier? Money and status? Age? Expectations?
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Old 05-22-2014, 02:48 AM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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Are you a strong woman who can get what she wants on her own, without having a man being your "keeper"? Do you like your independence and dislike it when a man tries to tell who you can see and where you can go alone or with friends? Do you dislike jealous men? Are you used to putting down your limits/borders, and having men respect them? Have you had many sex partners?

If you answered yes to all these questions, you're in the wrong country.


Only if she's going out with an internet dwelling nerd.
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Old 05-22-2014, 02:50 AM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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Hello guys! I need some help from you First,I'm Russian and I have an American boyfriend.
I start to find our relationship very complicated, a lot of misunderstandings and things like that. Tell me, what you need in a relationship with a girl? What you do not like in a girls? What would you like to see in your soul mate? I am kind and caring, a little emotional sometimes,and I see that he doesnt like it. Also I can't pretend that I'm happy if I'm not. I don't have a big experience in relationship with American guys and I really want to understand what they are appreciate in a relationship. Thanks in advance
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You could start by probably realizing the United States is a country of over 300 million people and approximately 150 million men. Instead of generalizing a country, you could start by learning about your boyfriend instead of asking about Americans.

Also, if you have that many misunderstandings.. it's not going to work out.
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Old 05-22-2014, 03:27 AM
 
Location: Empire State of Philly
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I don't think it has anything to do with the fact he's American. I dated Irish, French and American guys and truthfully, they were all the same ... (i.e: Tools). That said, the dynamic of a relationship doesn't depend on a nationality but on the person you're with. You should ask what men in general want in a woman (still, there's going to be some differences from one man to another).

Besides, how can you categorize his needs based on the sole fact he's American?! He could be Irish American, French American, Native American, African American, Asian American and for all we know, all of these types of "Americans" may have different standards/tastes. It doesn't even come down to him being "American" but to him being a man (age, social status, maturity level, future prospects blah blah blah).

Maybe if you're asking what he wants in a woman ... it probably means you're not it, otherwise you wouldn't be asking!
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Old 05-22-2014, 11:03 AM
 
Location: Terra
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It depends, all American guys are different.

I am in early stages of dating an east European girl... I like her a lot. Can you let me know what they and Russian girls what? I figure you can help since there are some cultural similarities.

Last edited by jsun556; 05-22-2014 at 11:26 AM..
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Old 05-22-2014, 11:11 AM
 
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Something's wrong here.
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Old 05-22-2014, 12:02 PM
 
Location: Concord, California
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lol!

I bet shes' got a few messages in her pm though.
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Old 05-22-2014, 01:39 PM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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lol!

I bet shes' got a few messages in her pm though.
rofl
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