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Old 06-07-2014, 06:24 PM
 
Location: southern california
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Not very I assume she is mature enough to respond honestly to invitations and not play push pull games
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Old 06-07-2014, 06:28 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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See most guys Ime have only chased to an extent and then they bounce. I find it odd tbh when guys continue to chase a woman over an extended period of time. The interesting thing is from what I observed when that happens if a man is persistant enough the woman will give in eventually. I do know of couples where the guy didnt give up until she said yes but just don't find that common these days.

Personally, I find that desperate. I Ain't got no time Fo-Dat. I got other women to be with and make love to
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Old 06-07-2014, 06:34 PM
 
Location: Texas
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I'm not very persistent. If the interest isn't mutual, I'll simply drop her. I dont have the time nor the inclination to be chasing women.
Absolutely agree!
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Old 06-07-2014, 06:37 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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Personally, I find that desperate. I Ain't got no time Fo-Dat. I got other women to be with and make love to

That's what I was saying... I consider myself a gentleman, but that being said, I aint gonna be chasing like some kind of silly fool, she has to give me clear signals that she's interested, otherwise, I'm out.....

Far far too many women out in the world to be ego stroking someone.......
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Old 06-07-2014, 06:57 PM
 
Location: Pa
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That's what I was saying... I consider myself a gentleman, but that being said, I aint gonna be chasing like some kind of silly fool, she has to give me clear signals that she's interested, otherwise, I'm out.....

Far far too many women out in the world to be ego stroking someone.......
Awww what's a little stroke here and there.
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Old 06-07-2014, 07:12 PM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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I'm willing to put in close to 0 effort.

There's always another one out there, I don't care.
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Old 06-07-2014, 07:22 PM
 
Location: Pa
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I'm willing to put in close to 0 effort.

There's always another one out there, I don't care.
You're killing me smalls.
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Old 06-07-2014, 07:26 PM
 
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it depends, for me, on how interested she seems in a relationship with me, and how interested i am in her as well. if we go out, and i call her a couple days later to say hi and see how things are going, if i get a cold shoulder from her, i feel pretty much done at that point. but is she seems warm and open to further dates, then i would ask when she is free again, and schedule accordingly. i try not to press a woman, she has enough pressure in her life without me adding to it.
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Old 06-07-2014, 07:39 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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See most guys Ime have only chased to an extent and then they bounce. I find it odd tbh when guys continue to chase a woman over an extended period of time. The interesting thing is from what I observed when that happens if a man is persistant enough the woman will give in eventually. I do know of couples where the guy didnt give up until she said yes but just don't find that common these days.
Why as a man would I want to be with a woman that I had to wear down??

Who wants to be a consolation prize....

I get that men chase women, but usually the woman gives clear signals that she likes the guy... otherwise if a guy chases too much, couldn't one interpret that as a form of harassment????
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Old 06-07-2014, 07:46 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Why as a man would I want to be with a woman that I had to wear down??

Who wants to be a consolation prize....

I get that men chase women, but usually the woman gives clear signals that she likes the guy... otherwise if a guy chases too much, couldn't one interpret that as a form of harassment????
Not if she wants to be chased.
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