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Old 07-14-2014, 03:33 AM
 
Location: Clarksville, TN
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I have become desperate for a relationship and am willing to settle for less or whatever I can find. I want to know what have you recommend I do to get into a relationship? I know I have confidence issues and Please no trolling.

I know you a lot of you are going to make fun of me, troll and talk bad about me cause that's a big part of alot of the populations life on here.
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Old 07-14-2014, 05:47 AM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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Your confidence issue is something you have to address and overcome if you're desperately wanting to settle in a crappy relationship.
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Old 07-14-2014, 05:49 AM
 
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What has gotten you to the point where you're desperate and ready to settle for any relationship?
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Old 07-14-2014, 05:59 AM
 
Location: southwestern PA
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I know I have confidence issues and Please no trolling.
What are you currently doing to overcome that?
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Old 07-14-2014, 06:10 AM
 
Location: Earth
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What has gotten you to the point where you're desperate and ready to settle for any relationship?
Possibly loneliness. You'd be surprised with people who go for, and/or stay in relationships, simply because they hate being alone, or feel like a weirdo for being single, or feel unloved and useless for it.

For the OP, if you are that desperate, you could start a relationship with a bum off the street. Let them stay at your house and give them money-sugar daddy/or mommy, and you have 'em.
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Old 07-14-2014, 06:36 AM
 
Location: a primitive state
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There are plenty of things worse than not being in a relationship.

However, glancing at a few of your old posts, perhaps you need to move to Atlanta or other big city where you can find a more suitable environment for your specific needs.

If you can't, focus on family and friends for your emotional needs and maybe get a pet. (Not kidding)
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Old 07-14-2014, 07:01 AM
 
Location: Terra
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You have to be happy with yourself before getting into a serious relationship... work on yourself first or you're going to be in for a world of hurt.
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Old 07-14-2014, 07:14 AM
 
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What do you have to offer your potential partner?

Or does that not matter as long as you have acquired the commodity of a "relationship"?

Did it occur to you that there will actually be another human being involved, with needs and desires of his/her own that you will be expected to fulfill?

Get a dog.
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Old 07-14-2014, 07:44 AM
 
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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Well, this is a huge sign that you're not ready to be in a relationship.

Get to a place where you think you're cool, and you're happy to live your life as you are, then you'll be ready.
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Old 07-14-2014, 08:20 AM
 
Location: Wastelands
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Try online dating sites.
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