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Old 08-31-2014, 10:43 AM
 
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Do they? I saw a few obese women yesterday and it just got me thinking.

When I say obese, I don't mean 5'5" and 160 pounds or something stupid like that.

I mean like 5'3" 250 pounds.

Sometimes I wonder if they are putting in work to lose weight. It's such an obvious solution to increase your attractiveness. If there were a way to do exercises to grow more height, I'd definitely be putting in hours a day.

Sometimes I think they don't because they have no trouble attracting a number of guys who like hefty women.

Opinions or personal experiences?

And let me just say that I probably would date an obese woman if she was cool.

 
Old 08-31-2014, 10:56 AM
 
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I'm fat, got dates, like all size men, yes I'm well aware I need to knock down some lbs.Lost 14 so far.Very physical job helps too.
 
Old 08-31-2014, 10:56 AM
 
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Some do... some don't.

Impossible to generalize.

But there are many people out there, men and women, who are attracted to others regardless of traditional standards of beauty. A good personality, sense of humor and exuding sex appeal can take you far.
 
Old 08-31-2014, 10:58 AM
 
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Truly there is someone for everyone who loves who they are. Big women with great self love, confidence and attitude can certainly attract men.

Try to remember, what appeals to you won't appeal to all other men and vice versa. Plenty of men find big women extremely attractive, believe or not.
 
Old 08-31-2014, 11:00 AM
 
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Sometimes I think they don't because they have no trouble attracting a number of guys who like hefty women.

Opinions or personal experiences?

And let me just say that I probably would date an obese woman if she was cool.
But what about the quality of those guys? Just because they're attracted to obese women doesn't mean they're desirable partners. Most women wouldn't settle for just anyone. Losing weight they'd have a better pool to choose from.
 
Old 08-31-2014, 11:02 AM
 
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Certain ethnicities seem to like fat women better than others. They may not marry them, but they're perfectly willing to "date" them.
 
Old 08-31-2014, 11:06 AM
 
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But what about the quality of those guys? Just because they're attracted to obese women doesn't mean they're desirable partners. Most women wouldn't settle for just anyone. Losing weight they'd have a better pool to choose from.
It's true but sad.

If a woman lost 125 pounds, then she'd have possibly exponentially the number of options. Some of the obese women I've seen have quite cute faces.

But if a man wouldn't date you back then, but he will now, is he really a better option?
 
Old 08-31-2014, 11:07 AM
 
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I'm fat, got dates, like all size men, yes I'm well aware I need to knock down some lbs.Lost 14 so far.Very physical job helps too.
How fat though?

You don't have to give exact stats, just a ballpark. No troubles getting men huh.
 
Old 08-31-2014, 11:07 AM
 
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Lol, no certain types of personalities don't go for Vogue women.
 
Old 08-31-2014, 11:07 AM
 
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It's true but sad.

If a woman lost 125 pounds, then she'd have possibly exponentially the number of options.
Some of the obese women I've seen have quite cute faces.

But if a man wouldn't date you back then, but he will now, is he really a better option?
Not always

There is much more to a person than how much they weigh or what they physically look like.
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