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The last guy I met who only wanted sex made his intetions clear right of the bat by bringing up sex and asked about my sexual preferences. However, not every guy is obvious or upfront about it in my experience .
I even met one in the past who told me that he wanted to take me out to dinner then try to scedule the first meet at his house.He had every excuse in the book why he couldn't see me during day time in public. It became clear after a while but it was confusing from the beginning since I was young and inexprianced.
So how to spot a guy who just want to sleep with you before wasting anymore time with him?
If there was a magic formula, everybody would do that. You have to get to know people like everybody else, sorry. That's what dating is. You practice figuring things out and learn what you do and don't want. Some people are excellent liars and there's no quick, easy way to tell.
The last guy I met who only wanted sex made his intetions clear right of the bat by bringing up sex and asked about my sexual preferences. However, not every guy is obvious or upfront about it in my experience .
I even met one in the past who told me that he wanted to take me out to dinner then try to scedule the first meet at his house.He had every excuse in the book why he couldn't see me during day time in public. It became clear after a while but it was confusing from the beginning since I was young and inexprianced.
So how to spot a guy who just want to sleep with you before wasting anymore time with him?
Probably the guys that only want you to come to their place and not meet you out in public and push and pressure you for sex right away
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If there was a magic formula, everybody would do that. You have to get to know people like everybody else, sorry. That's what dating is. You practice figuring things out and learn what you do and don't want. Some people are excellent liars and there's no quick, easy way to tell.
This. And as a guy, I often have no idea what I want, if anything, with a particular person until I meet them. Again, that is what dating is about.
The last guy I met who only wanted sex made his intetions clear right of the bat by bringing up sex and asked about my sexual preferences. However, not every guy is obvious or upfront about it in my experience .
I even met one in the past who told me that he wanted to take me out to dinner then try to scedule the first meet at his house.He had every excuse in the book why he couldn't see me during day time in public. It became clear after a while but it was confusing from the beginning since I was young and inexprianced.
So how to spot a guy who just want to sleep with you before wasting anymore time with him?
Probably if they are male they DO want to, but most don't necessary act on those desires!
Guys who are looking only for sex would move onto the next woman if you weren't receptive. It's somewhat self-correcting. If they stick around, you couldn't say it's only for sex. There has to be something other than sex keeping them around - you're nice, you cook, you're good company, etc. They could still want sex, sure, but it's not only sex then. The "hope" of future sex isn't as great a motivator as some would believe.
The last guy I met who only wanted sex made his intetions clear right of the bat by bringing up sex and asked about my sexual preferences. However, not every guy is obvious or upfront about it in my experience .
I even met one in the past who told me that he wanted to take me out to dinner then try to scedule the first meet at his house.He had every excuse in the book why he couldn't see me during day time in public. It became clear after a while but it was confusing from the beginning since I was young and inexprianced.
So how to spot a guy who just want to sleep with you before wasting anymore time with him?
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