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View Poll Results: Do you sleep nude when with your current or most recent partner?
Always 77 48.43%
Never 24 15.09%
Only after sex 23 14.47%
Used to, but not anymore due to the kids 9 5.66%
Used to, but not anymore for other reasons 4 2.52%
We prefer lingerie to fully nude even after sex 9 5.66%
Special occasions only 2 1.26%
Other/not applicable 11 6.92%
Voters: 159. You may not vote on this poll

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Old 06-12-2014, 09:56 AM
 
Location: Ohio
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My wife and I, when we first got serious, made a pact that if we were sleeping in the same bed, we were nude, even if we had no plans for sex that night. We both felt it increased intimacy, and made touching, cuddling, etc nicer. We would either go straight to bed nude, or end up that way if she wanted to wear some lingerie, but then she didn't put it back on after we took it off...

We don't do it now much because of the kids coming into our room at all hours, but we still do if we have an overnight getaway or something.

Some couples think the idea is weird, gross, or just cold/uncomfortable, but since we were both the type of people that often slept naked even when alone, it seemed natural.

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Old 06-12-2014, 10:00 AM
 
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That's not wise, you have to wash the sheets more and unless you are rich and have a maid and can replace your sheets whenever, its not a good idea. It's fine to fall asleep naked after sex but you should wear underwear to keep your sheets clean if you don't plan on hiding the salami.
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Old 06-12-2014, 10:04 AM
 
Location: Ohio
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We wash our sheets pretty often regardless.
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Old 06-12-2014, 10:06 AM
 
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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Never wear anything to bed with a SO or without. Wash weekly at a minimum, and if there is something special, then just put another set of sheets on.
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Old 06-12-2014, 10:30 AM
 
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I did when I was single and I do now. I get hot when I sleep and any attire woud make that unbearable. (We also keep the AC at 64 overnight).
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Old 06-12-2014, 11:28 AM
 
Location: State of Transition
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My wife and I, when we first got serious, made a pact that if we were sleeping in the same bed, we were nude, even if we had no plans for sex that night. We both felt it increased intimacy, and made touching, cuddling, etc nicer. We would either go straight to bed nude, or end up that way if she wanted to wear some lingerie, but then she didn't put it back on after we took it off...

We don't do it now much because of the kids coming into our room at all hours,
That's what a lock on the door is for. Have you also completely given up on sex for 18-20 years because of the kids coming into your room at all hours?

Dude. You're doing it wrong.
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Old 06-12-2014, 11:30 AM
 
Location: Pittsburgh
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I don't sleep nude, even when alone. I'm a big fan of pajamas.

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That's what a lock on the door is for. Have you also completely given up on sex for 18-20 years because of the kids coming into your room at all hours?
Most parents I know would feel terrible if their child was sick or scared and couldn't get to them because of a locked bedroom door. Kids who are still nursing often sleep in the parents' bed/room as well.
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Old 06-12-2014, 11:32 AM
 
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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That's what a lock on the door is for. Have you also completely given up on sex for 18-20 years because of the kids coming into your room at all hours?

Interestingly. I've rarely lived in houses that have locks on bedroom doors. My childhood house certainly didn't have them.
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Old 06-12-2014, 11:35 AM
 
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I have to wear underwear and pjs at home, but when I go to my guy's house it's a nudist colony up in there!
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Old 06-12-2014, 11:38 AM
 
Location: Canada
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That's what a lock on the door is for. Have you also completely given up on sex for 18-20 years because of the kids coming into your room at all hours?

Dude. You're doing it wrong.
I think his point was they prefer to have some sort of underwear on if the kids come into the room and need them in the night.
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