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i called her up, didnt mention age or anything, made her laugh and asked her if she was free Sat
See, I disagree with many of the other posters. The fact that she went out with the first time knowing your age (assuming you didn't misrepresent yourself on OKC) says she's open to the idea of spending time with a much younger a guy.
You were smart in being confident and making her laugh AND by not reminding her of the age difference.
See, I disagree with many of the other posters. The fact that she went out with the first time knowing your age (assuming you didn't misrepresent yourself on OKC) says she's open to the idea of spending time with a much younger a guy.
You were smart in being confident and making her laugh AND by not reminding her of the age difference.
Totally agree^^^. And if you had not already asked her again I would have told you to go for it, because the worst that could happen would be she would say no, and she might say yes.... AND SHE DID!
-Met this older woman on OKCupid
-Within 3-5 messages between us, we exchanged numbers, and talked on the phone
-She works 13 hour days (sales), so we met for a quick cup of coffee
-She said I'm very nice, handsome, funny, she even said I was awesome
-But she said she can't see us hanging out again because of the age difference, esp since her son is like 3 years younger than me (lol)
-I told her we probably couldn't have a real relationship, but we could still have some fun and enjoy each other's company
-She said she'd think about it, but probably not.
-This was all in person
What do??
I haven't texted her since seeing her (1 hour ago). I was thinking waiting a few days, then pretending like she never said any of that, and just ask her out for drinks. Thoughts?
I think you need to let it be. She already said she's not interested. Anymore persistence could cause her to feel annoyed. Really annoyed.
-Met this older woman on OKCupid
-Within 3-5 messages between us, we exchanged numbers, and talked on the phone
-She works 13 hour days (sales), so we met for a quick cup of coffee
-She said I'm very nice, handsome, funny, she even said I was awesome
-But she said she can't see us hanging out again because of the age difference, esp since her son is like 3 years younger than me (lol)
-I told her we probably couldn't have a real relationship, but we could still have some fun and enjoy each other's company
-She said she'd think about it, but probably not.
-This was all in person
What do??
I haven't texted her since seeing her (1 hour ago). I was thinking waiting a few days, then pretending like she never said any of that, and just ask her out for drinks. Thoughts?
She is clear. Move on. She is looking for a relationship, not just someone to date. Explore the "older woman" thing with a willing participant, it ain't her.
-Met this older woman on OKCupid
-Within 3-5 messages between us, we exchanged numbers, and talked on the phone
-She works 13 hour days (sales), so we met for a quick cup of coffee
-She said I'm very nice, handsome, funny, she even said I was awesome
-But she said she can't see us hanging out again because of the age difference, esp since her son is like 3 years younger than me (lol)
-I told her we probably couldn't have a real relationship, but we could still have some fun and enjoy each other's company
-She said she'd think about it, but probably not.
-This was all in person
What do??
I haven't texted her since seeing her (1 hour ago). I was thinking waiting a few days, then pretending like she never said any of that, and just ask her out for drinks. Thoughts?
If this was me, I would hang out with you just because you persisted after I told you no and relentlessly torture you with the friendzone.
i called her up, didnt mention age or anything, made her laugh and asked her if she was free Sat
Sounds like she initially wanted to date a younger guy and when she went out with you she probably realized she's really not into the idea of it now since her kid is 3 years younger than you.
Ok, so you posted that you asked her if she was free Saturday but you didn't say if she agreed to see you.
Ok, so you posted that you asked her if she was free Saturday but you didn't say if she agreed to see you.
Aha. Good catch.
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on the OP. we shall see though.
