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OP wasn't talking about hiring anybody to "have dinner with him," you know.
Doesn't matter. Escorts =/= prostitutes. Not all escorts put out. This is the equivalent of dumping your boyfriend because he smoked a joint when he was 20.
Doesn't matter. Escorts =/= prostitutes. Not all escorts put out. This is the equivalent of dumping your boyfriend because he smoked a joint when he was 20.
Nope. That is NOT what the OP was asking, and you know it. Unless you don't understand what he was using his hand for.
The whole point is that paying for sex is illegal and distasteful to many, like many things that are illegal, and like it or not it is NOT viewed the same as having a lot of partners.
Pros - might make you less 'needy' around women
- might make you a better confident partner(most women don't like guys who don't know what they are doing in bed)
- saves you time searching for a FWB or FB
Cons - can get expensive
- most women will dump you if they find out
- might make you lazy and not bother searching for a partner
- criminal record if caught
When I was looking into it almost 2 years ago the only risk to getting caught would be when you are initially looking for a girl. I was looking on craigslist and I was looking for the 50$ an encounter range, but that would have added up to 800 a month. It would be important to stay diligent about finding a real partner too and I imagine the price tag of prostitues would keep you motivated, but hopefully not so much so that you end up settling.
Being needy around women is the kiss of death, if a woman wants a guy who is not needy AND has never been with prostitutes who also has no game then she is a hypocrite and not the woman for me. Finding a FWB or a FB has been an absolute nightmare in the past and "saving time" is putting it lightly.
If you settle on a woman she will eventually pressure marriage and I am not the type to be looking for an upgrade while I am with someone else, I think thats wrong. But when I fail to sign the marriage licence she will eventually leave and then im just in the same cycle. With a prostitute I can be looking for a real relationship without settling AND without using my right hand for years.
Most women will dump a guy for ALL sorts of reasons otherwise prostitutes would not be in demand so im not sure thats even a real concern. If I have a girl I can call up I am less concerned about being dumped.
Do most guys just have enough game to get attractive women to drop their pants or do they just suffer?
Nope. That is NOT what the OP was asking, and you know it. Unless you don't understand what he was using his hand for.
The whole point is that paying for sex is illegal and distasteful to many, like many things that are illegal, and like it or not it is NOT viewed the same as having a lot of partners.
LOL I was not talking about escorts. Its not the same thing as having lots of partners because it indicates having no game. But if a woman finds it distasteful enough to dump a guy over then obviously she is not the one. If she cant understand why a guy with little to no game would not want to be using his right hand for years then she lacks a certian empathy for men in such situations.
Do most guys just have enough game to get attractive women to drop their pants or do they just suffer?
Personally, I think that if you think it's just about getting women to "drop their pants," you will suffer anyway.
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